Why won't he talk to me?

[Dollface91]

My boyfriend (probably ex-boyfriend now) won't talk to me. We dated since April 20 of last year. He's everything I want in a guy but he worked a lot. So I would visit him when I got off work. I would leave roses and notes on his car, bring flowers, bake cookies and cakes, send him text messages. I even made him a cake for his birthday. I got him a bible, a really nice necklace and made him a scarf for Christmas. He said that he was going to quit one of his two jobs this year so that he and I could spend more time together. After New Years, that's when the trouble started. I had received some very frightening news about a "demon" from my past. I started having nightmares. I wanted to talk to my boyfriend about this but he wasn't at his job and he didn't answer his phone. I went on his Facebook profile to leave him a message. I've been on his profile before to look at some of his pictures. I didn't notice this before, but his profile said that he was married. When we had first started dating, he said that he wasn't married. I asked him several times. I was angry and confused and left a bitter voicemail.
I've had boyfriends who have dragged me to hell and back and I thought I was in for another heartache when I took a good look at his profile. I cooled down later on that week and stopped at one of his jobs to talk to him, but he just ignored me. At first I thought he was busy, but then I realized he was deliberately ignoring. I thought leaving a rose on his car that night and baking him a cake he liked and a writing an apology note would ease the tension, and we would talk and work things out. But that didn't work. I tried again tonight to see him, but still ignored me. He even at one of his co workers to "tell her to fucking go". Why is he doing this? What did I do wrong? I don't want to lose him.
He did work two jobs, and I visited him at both.
And he really wasn't married. I had jumped to conclusions without giving him a chance to explain.
@ Warren What is this nonsense you're telling me? I'm trying to change him. In fact, I like the sort of person he is. Why do you think fighting tooth and nail to keep him around? I do all this nice stuff for him because I really like him and I thought that's what an ideal girlfriend or wife is supposed to do.

[Resnick]

I mind that she is angry with you. you talk with her at first. and also poke her.

[Silver]

Stop bugging him. He is OBVIOUSLY married and is a complete and utter scumbag. Why would you still want a guy after he kept ignoring you? It is very clear that he doesn't have a second job and has a wife. Leave him alone and move on with your life. Try to be more intuitive when it comes to guys and less trusting in the future. You probably have gotten your heart broken because you were way to trusting and they took advantage of that. Listen to what your friends and family tell you and follow their instincts because you clearly don't have good ones yourself.

[Warren]

Sweetheart, you're being abusive.

You're not letting him be free. You're caging him like a bird and you're trying to MAKE him feel things for you.

If you leave him and move on, you stop hurting him by trying to force him to be the person you want him to be, the person he can't be. You give true love to the one you love by letting them freely live the life they're trying to, not the life you want them to. You stop controlling him with the guilt trips behind your kind acts that try force him to BELONG to you.

You're not a bad person, you're a wonderful person. But true love is letting the one you love be free, right? You're trying to cage him in your world. Let him be free. Loving someone whose wish it is for you to love them is true love. Meet a new man who wants it. That's kindness.

You will then have everything you want.