Is this an overreaction?

[Rebecca]

I read my boyfriend's facebook messages (i know, not good) and he and his friend were talking about going to uni this year and how they will hook up with loads of girls. He also told his friend that he would ditch going to the same uni as me if they went together. I know I wasn't supposed to read it, and I sort of freaked out to him afterwards about uni even though he doesn't know I read his messages (logged out now, couldn't take it anymore). I now overreact about everything and am really sensitive to small things that he does or doesn't do. Otherwise he really is a pretty nice guy and treats me well. Should I end it or how do I find a way to be positive and forget his stupid conversation?

[Carol]

Be glad you find this out now than later. This means he's not serious about you. Besides, you're both too young to be in a committed relationship. Like him, you'll also meet a lot of attractive guys in college, which is part of the fun. But as far as your bf, I would start looking for a new one. I don't think you're overreacting. Don't let him know you read his facebook though. Good luck.