What do I do when my best friend is ignoring me?

[Courtney]

I don't want to jump to conclusions, but I can't help but wonder why my bestie is ignoring me?
I don't want to sound like a brat, but I really need her, she's all I've got.
So, it's not like she's not talking to me, it's just like we hang out everyday in school, coz we go in the same class, so we do talk regulary. But when we're not in school she acts like she doesn't know me. It's really hard for me cause she is my "only" friend. No body really understands me besides her and she's the only person who wants to talk to me, so I guess I need her, but she's pretty pppular in real life and on social networks (twitter)..

Anyway, I've been texting her since our school holiday started but she's not answering and I can see she's read the texts cause it says she has (twitter).

So basically, she tweets everyone, but she never answers me, on facebook, normal texts, twitter so yeah, Im just sortta worried.

[Karen]

try to talk to her face to face..

look.. you should try to open to more people and make new friendships.
Probably she felt like you were depending too much on her and she knew you need to go to other people aside from her.
you know i just to have a friend like you, she used to hand out with me all the time and she would call me best friend.. i had nothing against her but I need to meet more and people and she also need it to meet more people aside from so i stopped hanging out with her so i could meet other people.
But i would still talk back to her.

However, i find not nice her not replying so you should talk to her and let her know about your feelings.

HELP
http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index?...604AAKnO2a

[Happy Lola]

Hia !

I imagine that is really annoying, especially if she is your closet friend.
She might be super busy, or maybe just a bit overwhelmed if you're talking to her so often.

At the end of the day, if she's being like that with you - it isn't fair on you. you're only trying to be her friend and it's not fair on yourself.

I'm going to suggest you make some new friends Not because she isn't a good one, but she just seem a bit busy and if it's bothering you then I bet it would be nice for you to have someone else to meet up and go for coffees with.

I suggest joining a group or get a hobby of some kind

I used to have only a small group of friends in my teens, then I joined a youth group and I gained loads of new friends and it was great fun !!

I hope this helps, but honestly your friend probs isn't mad at you maybe just a bit busy and if she is just ignoring you then she isn't worth you time

You sound like a lovely person who really knows how to be a good friends.

Best,

L x

[Robert]

well, it sounds to me like there is only one solution here. have you ever seen the movie, "boxing helena" before? if not then you really need to go and watch it because it goes into great detail about exactly how you should resolve this issue with your bestie. it will go step by step and offer up all the solutions on how you can keep your best friend forever in your life and never have to worry again about her ignoring you.