How do I get over this?!??!?

[Jessica]

Ok so I like this guy, and he just got into a relationship with the same girl for like the 4th time, and I've liked him for a little over a year or two, and I can't get over him! He's dating this girl, when I went on Instagram, I saw a picture of them kissing, and I was like "well, that hurt ALOT."
I have never dated this guy, but he's really nice and really sweet, but I just don't know what to do, I'm always too scared to tell boys how I feel, so I missed my chance to ask him out.
So what do I do? I just feel upset inside, how am I going to get over this? I REALLY like him. I'm afraid to say anything to him, and I don't talk to him anymore, we were friends last year, he probably doesn't even remember me 😢

[Jessica]

Ah this is one of the most frustrating situations I know. Well, first off, if he's back with this girl for like the fourth time he is obviously not very serious about relationships in the first place or they have a very unstable relationship so I wouldn't envy it too much trust me!

Second, you may or may not have missed your chance just continue to be yourself, and in time what's going to happen will happen! Don't wish them to break up that will no doubt happen by its self, try your best to be as indifferent to it as much as you can I know it's hard. Use it as experience to grab your chance in the future with other boys, and your confidence will grow, u might need it for when your crush comes back around! P.S unfollow him on instagram.

I wouldn't advise you telling him how you feel. It will be more emotional stress for little or no reward at this moment in time.
Xoxo

[Shane]

hang in there, Jessica. It's hard any time someone is tugging at your heart strings but believe me when I say that time heals all wounds and it may hurt now but it gets better. As far as saying anything to him about how you feel, I say you do it if you really want to and don't be scared. You only live once so enjoy it, get out of your comfort zone and tell him how you feel because you shouldn't be worried about regrets.