i need some advice about this girl?

[Joshua]

hey first of all thanks for reading this ok so I came here to get some advice on a girl I like. last night was Valentines day, I went to a bar and asked this beautiful girl to dance with me on a slow song, she said yes and we became instant friends. so I started to drink and hang out with her and we danced to more songs we got to know each other very good I bought her drinks, I can honestly ssay it was one of the best nights ive ever had. we had so much fun I impressed her by beating an army airborne ranger at his own drinking game which im a Marine so I felt great about that haha but later I requested another slow song, we danced and I noticed she was getting more and more confortable with me, at the end of the song the dj said I want to see couples kissing so I looked at her and I had genuine feelings for her and we kissed I felt so amazing after that we were so close I ended up driving her home and kissing her again we exchanged numbers and after we kissed I told her that I knew she was special from the moment I first saw her so today I text her when she got off work and ive ran into a couple things I didn't expect to encounter lol first of all she is single and she did say she was my girl yesterday but she texted me saying "last night was amazing, to be honest I usually don't text back but I like you a lot." I asked her if shed hang with me and she said shes going karaoke tomorrow at the same bar we met which is cool. heres some of my concern.... I friended her on facebook today and found out she has a kid were both 21 and idk why she didn't tell me I don't really care that she does its just that the guy she had it with she goes and works out with I asked her to hang with me to watch the walking dead cuz we both like it and she said no she has plans to work out with her friend which his name is travis her sons dad. I cant help but feel that ive been misled on this and it really hurts cuz I seriously liked her a lot I don't mind her having a kid, but hanging with her baby daddy while claiming to be with me? not cool can I get some advice and please be respectful theres so many stupid people on here that say stupid shit lol thanks for your time

[Kurt]

Dont do it.

[johnb693]

Trouble is when meeting a stranger, no matter how nice they are, they all have baggage and a past.
I have to admit, your girl, has a lot more than one would expect at her age.

If she and her baby daddy, are friends, which is great for her child, it seems pretty obvious, they aren't about to marry any time soon. There may be good reasons for this, but if having a child together, doesn't get them married, not much else will.
As you really like this girl a lot, and she seems, to have it all, other than having a baby, you may want to get to know her better, and her life story, at least about her and the baby daddy.

I agree, she should have been upfront, about having a child, but who does that on a first date, and a text?
You wait until, you know one another better.
Seems a shame, to throw away a good opportunity, to get to know her, without, knowing all the facts about her situation.
So go to the Karaoke and see what the whole situation is with the baby daddy.
Maybe with more information about the two or three of them, you can make a wiser decision on which way to go.
Good luck.