Kissed guy but hasn't texted back or accepted facebook friend request?

[Alex]

Basically, I went to a party the other night and I was introduced to this guy that i kind of knew (goes to my friends college). We got talking and then spend the rest of the night getting off (even took me outside for a more private kiss). He was really affectionate saying i was really attractive and that we should meet up over the holidays. He then gave me his number and told me text him which i did saying somethin like its *****, how was your night - I got no response at all and then i friend requested him on facebook, but its still pending and its been over nearly two weeks. I'm so confused, he said he thought i was hot and i really kind of like him, we have a lot in common but then i hear nothing from him. What does this mean?! He's been on facebook, so has blantantly ignored my request. He is an actual decent guy according to my friends that know him (they're bare confused too) and I'm just left here quite confused, and slightly annoyed. What does any of this mean? Why would he say all of that and just ignore me? Someone help me, thankyou!! X

P.s i have only texted him once

[Casey]

Maybe he just wants time to himself??

[Machoman]

the macho man thinks you should snap into a slim jim dig it. ohhh yeahh

[Robin]

maybe you are not the thing for him and he is ashamed of his acting and ignores it all and wants to forget it ?

[Kim]

Don't stress on it. He probably wants you yearning for him. Seems like he doesn't care and wants to play. Do your own thing and know what you want and what is BEST FOR YOU. If you ask yourself what you want in a future relationship and it's worrying... by all means, keep pursuing. I realize I sound a little paranoid, but hey.. ya can't be too careful. You don't seem like a fool, but you are sensitive. So protect your emotional self, and don't let yourself become damaged.

[icup]

You could try getting a friend to add him and see if it's against you personally or not. Good luck. x

[Jeff Davies]

Sounds like typical bloke behavior to me, most of the friends I grew up with were the same. If I were you I'd forget about him, certainly don't text him again and if you can, try to cancel the Facebook friend request as well.

If there's a good reason for him ignoring you he will eventually find a way to let you know, then it'll be up to you to decide whether to believe him and give him another chance or not. Until then though don't fall into the potential trap of giving him the control over you and your feelings. At least this way you retain control.

If he doesn't get in touch....then it's no loss to you except maybe for the grief it would have eventually caused you.

[Dale]

Sorry about that I will accept it now, havent been on in a while ahaaa