Same Facebook question and now new details?

[Kelly]

I asked a week or two ago about how I should feel about my boyfriend putting up such a fight to not add me as a friend on facebook. We've been together 7 years. When we started dating he didn't want to add me because he didn't want "his ex stalking me". In the back of my mind I always wondered if he just didn't want to upset her or leave opportunity open for them to get back together. So we had drama a few years ago and he forced me to close my account, but he secretly kept his. A year ago, I reopened my account so I could keep in touch with family and friends who moved away. He didn't seem to mind, but I sent him a friend request. I kept telling him to add me and he kept claiming he never went on facebook anyways. Well there has been a handful of times I have walked into the room and seen him on his facebook and even see my request sitting in the upper right hand corner. About 2 weeks ago, I actually went up to the screen and pointed it out for him. As usual he said he would but signed out instead. Finally, I just got pissed and finally called him out on it. He once again said he would and did nothing. So I password protected my computer and blocked him on facebook. He kept saying "I'll just add you!" but by that time I was already too sore at the fact that this is what it took for him to click a button. Finally I just told him that I canceled the request, blocked him and hid my relationship status. Well he lost it and got mad. He tried to accuse me of trying to talk to other people and that's when I took it a step further and packed a bag. After two days of not talking to him and him begging for him to stay, I stayed, but he still made not effort. The way he appeared to take it was as it was worth the battle and now it was over. I finally just gave up.

A few days ago, after a night of drinking my boyfriend woke up the next morning seeming upset and distraught about me. Like he had a bad dream. He then told me that his ex sent him a friend request about a year ago and he didn't accept it. He just wanted to let me know for some reason. I had a dream last night and it really rubbed me the wrong way. I have been having a lot of weird ass dreams because I'm four months pregnant. I was dreaming that my boyfriend and I were just living life (going to dinner, being at family gathering) and this chick kept coming around like she was invited. My boyfriend would say nothing to her like "go away" or anything.

This morning after I thought about what I dreamed, I realized that she has been keeping tabs on him...... IS THIS THE REASON HE WONT ADD ME AS A FRIEND? DOES HE NOT WANT HER TO KNOW I'M PREGNANT OR HE IS STILL WITH ME?

The way I saw it, if it was this hard to get him to add me as a friend (which he still hasn't, well he hasn't even asked me to unblock him) then imagine how hard it would be to add me as his girlfriend. It's things like this that sit in the back of my mind and make me not want to marry him. Which brings me to this question that totally destroys me. If I won't marry this guy, why the hell am I having a baby with him and have I made a horrible mistake?

[postal p]

Sadly, you have picked a real loser. I feel sorry for you. Take this guy to the cleaners, for full child support.