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I my boyfriend posted my suicide note all over the web.?
03-28-2014, 03:30 AM
Post: #1
I my boyfriend posted my suicide note all over the web.?
I was feeling really depressed. So I came on Yahoo answers to ask what was the best way to kill myself. I got a lot of great feedback and all the people who answered me back really helped me out, they had really kind words and helped me rethink things.
That same night I posted that my live boyfriend and I had a argument and that argument made me feel useless so that was my driving point to want to commit suicide.
So I wake up this morning to find out that he posted my question on my facebook page and twitter. And it was up for about an hour and everyone saw it, even his family members. I feel so humiliated, I felt better after those nice people answered last night but now I feel so horrible all over again. Im so hurt and angry that I feel calm, which is a feeling ive never felt.
Was that illegal for him to do, I heard people can be sued for invasion of privacy.
I feel like he did it just to win a fight and humiliate me.

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03-28-2014, 03:32 AM
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No it wasn't ilegal and was just as unfair as you threatening suicide and leaving him a note. You need to reevaluate your relationship and move on but you also need to keep help for your issues.

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03-28-2014, 03:36 AM
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Find a new one seriously he could be a psycho. Fight these suicidal thoughts u r gonna die someday anyway, till then stay hyped and LIVE your precious life.
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03-28-2014, 03:41 AM
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Your first step is get rid of that worthless piece of crap you call a boyfriend! That just made me so mad to read that...grrrr Second step, whatever you post is for "public" knowledge, if you did not want others to read it or know about it, you should have either called him or wrote a personal note. BUT, he did not have your permission to do such a thing like that and post it...if you can go back and get a copy of it on Twitter and facebook, get it, it's your proof that he did such an imature thing. (and don't tell anyone you are doing this either= it's not their business to start with) Then seek a lawyer and see what he says.There are some states that do find that illegal but like I said you need to call a lawyer and ask about it. Now for the feeling humiliated, I KNOW you do because you would no be human otherwise but honey, it's really ok because sooner or later what he posted others will realize THEY are the jerks and should not feel one thing because that idiot posted something so personal between him and yourself. Please don't let it ruin your day. You can't help "think" about it of course but don't let it ruin you day. And remember, as the old saying goes, "this too shall pass". Please try to get a copy of what he posted and then call a lawyer to see what can be done. Next go out and get yourself an ice cream with a girlfriend and just have a nice conversation and laugh. Trust me, you don't need that idiot in your life and do NOT forgive him either no matter what he says to you, that is just unforgiveable! Best of luck to you and God Bless
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03-28-2014, 03:55 AM
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Listen, anybody who would take something so personal & post it for everyone to see DOES NOT care about your feelings at all. That is a huge slap in the face, no matter what idiotic reason he had for doing so.
Also, quit posting on social media about negative aspects of your relationship! Come someplace like this instead, where nobody knows either of you. I think people are making a huge mistake these days by laying every detail of their lives out on Facebook, etc. call a friend & talk about it, you know...like in the "old days". That's what mothers, sisters, best friends, etc are for. Relationship woes are not the business of your 900 Facebook "pals". Like your note, it's personal.
So if your relationship sucks so badly that you're driven to thoughts of dying, it's time to get out of it. I have a feeling that you are young (early to mid 20's?) & don't have children together. Perfect. That's a good recipe for a clean break. Not sure what you're fighting about but chances are, it's not worth dying over. Live life for YOU, do things that make you happy & set you up for success (school, etc). Get yourself into a position where you can support yourself without a man. Things look a lot different when you don't rely on someone else to help pay the bills. So many women feel stuck due to finances, don't be one of them.
And please, don't be someone who throws suicide talk around to the bf whenever you fight (not saying you do). But, that's not a nice thing to do. One day you may need to reach out for help & nobody will believe you're serious.
But seriously- those aren't good thoughts to have & if its often you should go see someone. If this bf makes you feel that awful, chances are he's not for you. The number one thing that should stop are the back & forth of laying out relationship details via Facebook, etc. I set up an anonymous twitter that nobody I know in my "real" life knows about whatsoever. I vent there. This crap that happened with your note should have never happened, especially for your family to see.
Perhaps he lashed out because he doesn't like your business on the web? It really bothers some people. Have a talk with him.
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