im not sure if i should go on a date with this guy?

[Laree]

so I used to know him in high school we started talking on facebook then he gave me his number. we have been talking for two months now he is in the army and I just joined the military as well .He calls me every night and we talk for hours ,I really enjoy talking to him he makes me laugh a lot .the only problem is he told me he has four booty calls and this friend he jokes around with and calls his wife. i really like him but i cant tell if he sees me as a potential girlfriend or just another booty call. He wants to go on a date with me in about a year i know that's a long time its only a year because we are both in the military and don't have the time to go now .anyways im not sure if i should just walk away from this or see where it goes .
i just don't understand why he would put that much effort to call me every night for a few hours if he didn't like me .we talk about our childhoods ,work, just about anything and everything .its been so long since ive been able to get lost in conversation with another person. i have dated nice guys where i was their main focus but i didn't have any connection like i do with this guy . i did ask him if he was seeing anyone and i like the fact that he was honest with me .idk half of me wants to go for him and the other half just wants to forget about him.

[TANDY]

Being in the military will be hard, you should just focus on him as a friend and not as a boyfriend until you have a foundation to build upon. The best way to test a man's intentions is to keep him waiting. A year is a long time, so don't you think you could invest in someone more worthy and real ?

[Chudds]

If he has told you already that he has 4 booty calls plus the other girl, it is difficult to see where you would fit in. It seems he does not want a proper relationship, maybe in a years time that will be different but I wouldn't wait for him and you'll probably find somebody else in that time who doesn't have all these other girls

[Moretime]

Hi Laree I know that you would like to be exclusive with this guy but at least he's being honest (that's if he's telling the truth about all he says) and upfront rather than hiding anything. Only you know yourself and whether or not you would really want to continue having fan talking to this guy or just plain walk away because you can't see yourself sustaining a so-much-out-there relationship with someone. Laree you are willing to throw away what could turn out to be such a beautiful thing not really giving it time be ause you think that he might not keep that date in a years time. Laree there are no quarantees to anything least of all a relationship that's what makes them worthwhile. Laree why should you really care how it's all going at the moment because that what happens at the start of something. Yes you know that you're attracted to someone and in time it either gets stronger or they end up not being the type of person you initially thought they were but you cross that bridge after giving it a try. What have you got to lose as you alraedy like him and it appears that it's very mutual?