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Need help!!! Can anyone help me with this?
03-28-2014, 11:37 AM
Post: #1
Need help!!! Can anyone help me with this?
So here is the story:
Today i was almost got hit by my friend(well so called)'s best friend.
P.S.: my friend so called one likes me or used to and even proposed me and i turned him down because i wasn't really interested in him.

So my van uncle was late and we usually stand near the school's main gate. His van is generally at the one end of the school bus area. so me and my friend, from the same van, went that side to hire a cab. we like after almost an year saw each other(no eye contact) and it felt weird. I felt that aura comming from him saying to me :'WHY ARE YOU DOING THIS TO ME B!TCH?' well the b!tch part is my imagination. It felt weird but i kind of ignored him. later after 10 mins I notice him like 20 mtrs in adjacent to me talking some, guys i don't know, near the cab station. But that didn't really matter to me. But while going home in the cab i was just thinking about my day and planning ahead, i realized that i am feeling sad about the whole thing and i've no clue why. I know that the way the stuffs went between us was totally my fault but what i did was not wrong. I had to do that. For his sake i had to.

and yea for info:
we were not really good friends. we used to chat on fb and twitter for like 3 hrs a day [i know its stupid but yea we used to]. He failed in his final exams and i just passed with a really BAD percentage. I didn't wanted to waste his another year [as he had to repeat that year all over again] and mine as well so i just stopped talking to him and started acting like a stranger to him. He even said sorry to me by sending me chocolates and a rose but i refused it and sent them back. He later gathered the courage and came to my class to talk to me but i got upset and acted like i don't give a freaking damn about him any more.
but what happened today made me feel all attracted towards him all thinking about our happy past n all. Tomorrow is my very important test and i can't get all this out my head...
and i guess for a little while i liked him too. Not sure just guessing Tongue
P.P.S.: I am not good with my studies and all distracted...
serious answers only as your opinion matters a lot to me and 10 POINTS for helping me out Smile
P.P.P.S.: I am fair and he is kinda dark brown. We both don't really look good but my friends tell me i am cute and i have roundy face and he is wide from all angles Tongue

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03-28-2014, 11:50 AM
Post: #2
 
First of all, remember, after your test, he will not elope and I guess you too don't have any such program. So relax for a day. Attend your exam. Next, you seem to be quite confused. You dont seem to be in a condition to take a final call. Its hard to say whether you really like him or not. It can be called infatuation. You need to ask from your heart, whether, you feel restless without him, whether you see him standing besides you forever, whether you like him just because you didn't look at anyone else, whether he is committed to you or he is just with you because he didn't get anyone else?
If you really think that he is the guy you would like to spend your life with you should go ahead and follow your heart. Otherwise, this guy seems to be bit stingy. Even if you say No straightaway he will keep on following you asking lots of questions or expecting a change of heart. So, you need to be normal with him. However, you need to show him that he is not the man of your life. You don't need to respond the way he expects. YOur replies should cut short to 3 words at max. If you get a call, you should turn on your TV or start talking to someone else and make him hold on again and again. This way he will understand that you are a complete waste of time for him and you will get rid of this guy.

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03-28-2014, 11:58 AM
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okay firstly do u think not talking to him makes u any less distracted from ur studies?! I mean tom u have a test and here u are typing such a big ques and thinking about him..dont blame him for being the reason why u cant concentrate on studies...u need to no how to balance things...talking to him or chatting with in fb is totally fine..if ..only if u study 3 hours before that...and maybe an hour after that..during examz..chat for just half an hour...studies are imp to make ur career...but we all a social anaimals...we need people..friends..crushes..etc ..in our lifes too..so and what u did with him was really bad..friendz dont leave eachother in the middle...so i think u should apologize to him..and start talking to him..but little...concentrate more on your studies...and first study now for ur test ! All the best with him and oh yea ur test. Smile
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