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girls/ladies out there? can you answer my question around here?
03-28-2014, 03:56 PM
Post: #1
girls/ladies out there? can you answer my question around here?
lately I was log on onto my girlfriends facebook account...
and I noticed her activity log that there is a guy that she always search out for everytime since this month...
they're not friends on facebook though but I don't know if they are in real life, that guy is in relationship so as my girlfriend to me.

now...
should i ask her who is this guy? and why do she always search him?
because almost every time she logs in to her FB account she is searching for that guy.
or
should I not to? i don't think im insecure im just curious.

my girlfriend gave her password to me though that's why I have an access to it.

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03-28-2014, 03:59 PM
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just casually ask "hey who's so and so? he looks familiar." dont make it obvious that you think they have something going on. if she gets defensive, you should look more into it. if she doesnt get defensive and straight up tells you whats going on, then dont worry

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03-28-2014, 04:09 PM
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Maybe you should just start a normal conversation with her and slowly bring it up. Remember, the key is that both of you are comfortable. And think, if it was her relative, she would&#x27;ve probably added him already. Same goes for friend, neighbor etc. If it&#x27;s someone completelely random, maybe you can ask to friend him on your account and hopefully he will accept.
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03-28-2014, 04:16 PM
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If she gave you her password, then she's letting you know she's faithful and there's nothing she's hiding from you. But the curiousity you have because of she being your girlfriend is pushing you to find out the reason why she doesn't just befriend the guy and send him messages as friend on FB, you know. I say you should go ahead and ask her. No, it doesn't in no way mean that you're insecure. It just means you think logically and do not understand why she'll go through all that trouble when she can just befriend him. Maybe she has an interesting story why. One thing I know for sure is there's nothing to be worried about. Well all the best.
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03-28-2014, 04:22 PM
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Yes. Don't be afraid, just ask her what's going on.
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