Why did he block her ?

[pinkfaith]

So my boyfriend used my phone the other day to access his facebook and I went on it thinking it was my business page and noticed he had blocked a local girl ( whom is about 5 years younger than ) we have mutual friends and one of her friends is a girl he used to work with( she left about 6 months ago ) I'm just curious as to why he would block her? There must be a reason ... He is very possessive over me and forever asking ' why I liked that status ' ' who's that that has messaged you ?' He also hates me going out alone etc ! Now I'm thinking it's because of this ? We have a home and child together and id be gutted if he had been messaging others girls especially as he gives me so much grief ( I have never cheated on him nor would I ) so basically I'm asking if this sounds suspicious to you or is it just me ? I'm also wondering how to ask him. Chances are he'll lie and I have no other proof unless I just ask the other girl which I really don't want to do. Or shall I just leave it ?

[Scott]

In my opinion yes I would be alittle bit worried about it. Confront him, nicely, and becareful how you word it, and just ask him why he did that. To me it seems like he doesn't want you to see what she or him are putting on their facebook. If he doesn't like you to go out alone that could because he's just real protective of you. I'm kinda the same way, but its more like in case something happens like her car would break down and I would be there to protect and make sure she is safe.

But the facebook thing is abit odd to me. Like i said, confront him about it, but be nice about it. If he gets really defensive that means he could be hiding something. Just my opinion and good luck.

[Sarah]

She probably is attracted to your boyfriend. I t sounds like your boyfriend is a bit overprotective. But usually when a guy is protective he doesn't do anything that he wouldn't want you to do. This meaning he blocked her because he is in love with you, he doesnt want her to message him or fool around. He wants just you. She prob messaged him and he responded with "I don't wanna date you, i have a girlfriend etc." so dont be worried. At least he is being responsible and not playing behind your back.

[857]

I think that social media is making modern day relationships so much harder to navigate. There is no etiquette around this and the only way to find out the truth is to confront your partner. You have a home and family and if you have suspicions it is much better to talk honestly rather than investigate secretly when there may simply be a normal explanation. Perhaps this girl added him persistently and so he blocked her because he is happy with you? I think this is less suspicious than private messages with her. I do however think that he sounds incredibly possessive in terms of the suspicions he has in regards to your social media accounts which is a little weird.

[Y]

He blocked a girl for whatever reason and that is wrong somehow, if he had been chatting with her, that would have been wrong too most likely. Both of you need to get off the face book or share a page until you figure out the boundaries that work for both of you.