How do I know if he blocked me or deactivated his facebook?

[collegechick224]

So to make a long story short, I was friends with this girl last year who introduced me to her guy friend one night when we were all out. I kind of developed feelings for him and she figured it out. Started saying that he was hooking up with one of our other friends who completely denied it. I eventually just moved past it and wanted the drama out of my life so I got as far away from them as possible. Fast forward to this past September where I'm out and about with a couple friends and we start talking to this super nice waiter not to mention he's super cute. He's from my area and also knows the guy I used to have feelings for as they are pretty close. I had him as a waiter a couple times since i went there enough seeing as the restaurant is pretty close to my work with the last few times where I didn't see him. I eventually talked to the original guy I had liked and told him I met his friend the waiter and jokingly said he should pass my number along which I assumed her never would. Within the past couple days I talked to another mutual friend and asked if he still worked at the restaurant and found out he did. Went on facebook that night and low and behold in the people you may know section he pops up. Found out we went to the same college and asked how he's been and such. Two days later I come to find in my messages that I can still see his name but when I click on the message it says facebook user. Any ideas about this? Did he deactivate his facebook or block me? Also why do you think he would do this? No matter what he did he did it cause of me. I should mention all the people involved in this are pushing 30. I'm a very social person who's friendly with everyone and get screwed over by people. Any thoughts are appreciated. Thanks!

[Lynxbow58]

I did not read your long issue but will only answer your Q. Google how-to know... and when you type in a name of a person who deactivated their Facebook, it says it's deactivated.