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I want to move back to Texas where my ex lives, but my family saids it is a bad ideal. Not the same city.?
03-30-2014, 10:52 AM
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I want to move back to Texas where my ex lives, but my family saids it is a bad ideal. Not the same city.?
I left my husband more then a year ago after 5 yrs of marriage because he gave me a black eye and other abusive reasons. I moved home to the east coast with my parents and I have been miserable ever since. I have a 2yr old little girl and she is the love of my life. I haven't been able to find a real job where I can have a stable life and there is nothing to do here on a social level. I been wanting to move back to texas but been nervous about my soon to be ex interfering in my life. I plan on getting full custody and a divorce before making the move. He recently stop calling me everyday and his new girlfriend got my number. His girlfriend informed me they were living together and so on. I was a little hurt by the fact, but I am getting over it. He isn't a good person, so I am not missing anything. I have been angry that he refuses to pay child support and didn't send our little girl a christmas or birthday gift. But he can live and support another woman with a child.

I mostly want to move back because the job market is great there and there is so much to do. Plus I am tired of my family trying to control my life. I am 32 yrs old and I live at home with no job. I am working on my Masters and I feel I can be very successful if I moved back to Texas. I also want to show him that I can do better without him and how much of a loser he is for hurting me.

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03-30-2014, 10:53 AM
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Besides Texas there are other States to move to. Your reasoning is fueled with jealousy this will catch up with you. Sounds like you are not over him, that is not good. Stay far away from him and start thinking of you and the child. Better of without him around. You cannot make a man a father so just ignore the moron.

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03-30-2014, 11:04 AM
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Did you have a lot of other friends there or would the move be to show him? I don&#x27;t think you need to show him anything and if he&#x27;s violent and abusive some space between you may be a good thing. There are other places with good job markets. Maybe only pick Texas if you think you can get support their from other people. Don&#x27;t expect anything from him. He&#x27;s making it clear he doesn&#x27;t want to give you anything.
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03-30-2014, 11:21 AM
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There are plenty of places to get a good job besides the area right near your ex. Find one of those. Find a layer to get child support payments for your child.
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03-30-2014, 11:28 AM
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What you're talking about is just geography...you can make a viable home wherever you choose...including on the East Coast.

Suck up the support you have right now - especially with a young toddler in tow...finish your masters and keep looking for work. I seriously don't believe that in the year you've been living at home you haven't been able to find ONE viable job opportunity. Or, are you just applying for stuff you want and nothing else?
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