Why do some people just have it all?!?! Its not fair.?

[719]

There just seem to be some people and girls who just have it all.
For example some girls are beautiful, tall, have amazing hair, gorgeous eyes, fit bodies, amazing physiques, long legs and the best style and intelligence. They also look so happy and are super popular and social and have a million friends and a ton of people adoring them and they are LIVING and always doing something or hanging out with people or traveling. They also come from gorgeous neighborhoods and are rich and have parents who are amazing and who they are friends with and get along with. And plus they are adored by guys
And let's face it, physical appearance is super important in society unfortunately so they have an advantage.

I'm average looking, have like one friend unstable family life, crazy parents and I'm super lonely and never leave my room.
I understand that everyone has their own journey and things aren't always as they seen, but it's still arguable that some people just have so much more.

[dougluvn]

One would say you attract this yourself. Others would say you have bad karma.

Stop fretting over what others have and foucs on yourself. What can you do to change things? Your approach to the problem will effect the out come.

[Maroontiger]

Don't worry about what other people have. Besides, life isn't about where or how you start it, it's about how you've lived it and if you've enjoyed it. If you focus on what you don't have instead of what you do have, you won't fully enjoy YOUR life.
I wouldn't exactly call myself the most physically appealing person, but I'm proud of how much I've improved as a person over the years. I know and am proud of who I am, and I don't need anyone to tell me otherwise.
Build some more confidence, then it shouldn't matter what other people have.

[Kevin]

Some people have so much more.
Some people have so much less.
Hmm. Either the glass is half empty or half full.

Consider this:
Most people in the world don't have enough.
You have more than enough to complete your journey.
Yet having enough seems unsatisfactory? Why?

[Ant]

I can't change your insecurity but I can give you hopefully a different angle to look at these "amazing girls"

First of all, anything in the media is completely fake. I have lived beside a rich neighbourhood... they look EXACTLY like everyone else in the world, a girl who is pretty and hired for modelling or something can come from any type of income families (lower, middle, upper)

The scenarios that you see on any media thing, television, movie and magazines, are all completely fake. Makeup is AMAZING, they can completely change the contours of a face making it perfectly semetrical, getting rid of minor blemishes, resculpting the nose and chin with shadows, enhancing the eyes etc. No one looks like how they do once makeup is done, look at before and after magazine pictures, the before ones are STILL with makeup on, these excellent photoshop masters haven't even altered them yet. So the before pictures are still nowhere near what these women look like!

People aren't always that skinny, for video premiers, movie premiers, anything within the media, a lot of them work out all the time and have very very strict diets, which takes about 3 hours a day of preparing foods and exercise workouts, if they don't do this every day than they just do incredibly stupid yo yo diets where they starve their bodies for a bit, exercise intensely and then drop a bunch of weight, only to put it back on after the show is done. They are paid to do this.. doesn't make it any less silly!

Then for girls in your school who have perfect hair, perfect bods, have perfect little personalities, perfect,perfect,perfect. they are not. There was one girl in my school who was being brutally physically abused by her father, only to come back to school the next day with a big smile on her face.

Yes some of them may have extra money for clothes and makeup and spend an hour longer than you to get ready... look at it this way.

Highschool sucks so much. It is awful. Once you leave though, YOU will finally be able to hang around people and see things that work well with your actual personality, not the one that you have to put on in highschool to just survive. The people who seem all perfect now will fade away and you'll have amazing times doing things that you are really interested in.

I'm sorry that was such a ramble, I have felt the same way, and now I feel a lot better. I am in the entertainment industry, it's all completely fake. All those magazine smiles, they're paid to smile, then walk off set moping and hating themselves.

Next time you see anything that makes you wish you were like them, just think about whats really under that perfect little image. Focus on things you love and finding a career that you're passionate about! School will be over at some point, then you're time begins!