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Would anyone like to share their thoughts on this debate I am having on supposed female bisexuality?
03-30-2014, 10:10 PM
Post: #1
Would anyone like to share their thoughts on this debate I am having on supposed female bisexuality?
Okay, I have known this one girl quite a while now. She claims she is bisexual.... a little too much. She is 18, fresh into college, turning 19 in a few months. The thing is I know she has never dated or been intimate at all with a female. I have questioned if she has even kissed a girl before and she said no. But then she realizes what I am getting at and gets hostile towards me, claiming she IS bisexual. Other things I notice about her is she has a VERY large following of guy friends, I'd say close to 5000 on her facebook, probably a couple hundred on her DeviantArt page, few more on her Tumblr... you get the idea. I can clearly see she loves attention, and in school she was goofy and immature, not your typical female, really. Would laugh inappropriately, make silly noises, laugh at farts, burps, act really stupid and because of this the other kids picked on her. She is still this way, very immature, loves attention, changes her profile picture a few times a day. If one picture isn't getting any likes as often as she likes, she changes it to another picture. Her average picture gets around 80 likes. And a few times on her wall she put stupid things like "I want a girl to be mine" or "I think I like girls more than guys" or something out of the blue that guys would click the hell out of the LIKE button with. In her pictures, she acts like she is in a relationship sometimes with a particular girl. There is pictures of her in a hot tub where they are in bikinis and they have their arms around each others' shoulders. I also know this girl is her cousin. Back around last January, she had a pseudo-lesbian relationship on Facebook with my close female friend. I asked the girl later how that went and she said "Oh I got rid of her quick, she was just silly and basically did it for attention" and I can confirm this being they acted really ridiculous on each others' walls. Posting pictures of other girls kissing and saying "oh baby" and tagging each other as the girls in the pictures. And of course the male audience of perverts was just loving it. This girl said she got rid of her because she said there was no indications she wanted an actual relationship. I asked if she even really acted the part and this girl said "she tried too hard sometimes and it was annoying." So with all of this being said, with this girl putting "I AM BISEXUAL, IF YOU DON'T LIKE IT, DON'T TALK TO ME" on every single profile she has on every social networking site, does it sound like she is bisexual, closet bisexual or what I assume.... just a girl starved for attention?

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03-30-2014, 10:22 PM
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well that is your decision but not your choice basically you can assume that she just wants attention but she could be bisexual you cant make the choice but if she is so what at least she still likes guys

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03-30-2014, 10:28 PM
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What's important is that she is someone that thrives on attention.
As far as her actual preferences go, that's something that is far harder to say.

In the end I'd just avoid her anyway, she has a lot of obvious problems and hanging around with her and paying attention to her antics is doing nothing more than feeding her desire for more attention.
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03-30-2014, 10:38 PM
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Sounds like an attention whore.

Probably isn't bisexual, either way it shouldn't matter to you if she is or isn't.
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03-30-2014, 10:39 PM
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My question to you is why are you giving her attention she obviously craves?

Don't you think she'd be thrilled to know you posted a wall of text all about her? Stop it. Spend time thinking about people that aren't total wastes of space.
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03-30-2014, 10:50 PM
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This definitely sounds like she just wants attention. I'm bisexual myself, and I certainly don't make a huge deal over it or mention it as often as possible. In fact, I never bring it up unless I feel I need to. It's fine to be proud of your sexuality, but there's a difference between being proud and yelling "I'M BISEXUAL! EVERYONE NOTICE THAT I'M ATTRACTED TO FEMALES!".
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