My best friend is becoming a biatch.?

[brownie]

So my best friend of four years has become a total bitch. She makes fun of me, goes through my messages on facebook and my phone and always accuses me of lying. I did lie about sending pictures to my boyfriend but its none of her business. I told her i didnt. But she went through my facebook messages and saw that i mentioned something that implied i sent them now shes being a bitch. And someone told me how shes always talking behind my back about stupid stuff i did and how shes basically soo much better than me. I honstly love her to peices, i dont know what i would do without her but i cant stand her lately. She makes me so mad and brings up crap from the past. What do i do? Like should i just avoid her for a few days or should i try to talk to her? But idk if i wanna talk to her cuz she always manages to piss me off. Like i feel like im not good enough to be her friend.....

[Doctorwhofan]

Don't completely avoid her. That could make it worse. I would suggest that you find a good time to talk. Tell her that you want to talk and arrange a time where it will be just the two of uninterrupted so you can talk.
Remember that she could be feeling similar things to you. Different people react in different ways. She sounds like she is reacting to the fact that you lied to her. I'm not saying its your fault or that how she is treating you is OK, because it's not. Try to remember that it is likely that she feels its your fault if your relationship is damaged. You need to listen to her, apologize for anything you have done to hurt her and once she has had a chance to talk, then you can tell her how you believe she has hurt you.
It may be really hard to do this, I know because I've had to do this when relationships have been damaged by things that I did, but you have to be the bigger person if you want to fix anything. You need to both want this to work and both need to put in effort.
If this doesn't help, then there isn't much you can do. You may just need a break from each other. When you are friends with someone for a long time, sometimes you just need a break. Good luck with everything. I hope you can work it all out.
Remember to listen, whether you listen intently to what they have to say or if you choose to interrupt and try to defend yourself while make a huge difference to the outcome.