Why is my boyfriend so evil to me?

[Tabitha]

We live in the same house now for about 9 months. He has been married once already. I just turned 22 on the 12th of this month. He will be 43 on the 27th. I love him and he says he truly loves me. We have amazing conversation s and come from similar backgrounds with tough upbringing and stuff but now he is a successful business man. He had two ten year old twin boys that he visits twice a month out of state and I completely support that. I try to prove to him that I am a dedicated girlfriend and I tell him 20 times a day how attracted I am to him and how I'll never look at another guy or cheat on him. He checks my phone records and freaks out so bad and calls me the worst possible names possible when an old guy friend texts or calls me. He wants me to delete my Facebook page because there are guy friends on there even tho I only use Facebook to talk to my family. Im so sad the last thing I want is to break up. We have an amazing chemistry but it hurts so bad when he gets gry.idkwat2do

[Who]

Because he likes to be controlling. Probably why he's into younger women, they have less experience and are probably easier to control.

[Thought Officer]

He is a control freak and unreasonably jealous, dating someone twenty years younger than him because he cannot get along with women his own age.

Based on how you wrote this question however, you are intent on living out this fantasy and more than likely will reject my advice.

However the fact remains, you're in a frightening situation.

[Jeff]

Run. Run fast and run far. At his age he's never going to change. He has serious control issues. Best outcome, you finally realize you deserve to be treated better. Worst case, you end up in a battered women's shelter. I hope you chose the first option.

[nushku]

Wow, reading this was like reading apart of my past *shivers*. I went through this and it never got better, only worse. My bf at the time was the same exact thing, flipping out if some guy from when we were not even dating texted me, he wanted me to delete my fb ( i even did) and i jumped through hoops for him to prove to him that i loved him.. In the end......4 years later, i found out he had another gf on the side for a YEAR. Get out of this!!!! This guy sucks, he doesnt love u, and u can do wayyyyyyyy wayyyyy better and be with someone who u will be truly happy with and not always have to worry about what hes going to get mad at/accuse u for next. PS u are so young u dont need this old fart, its u who has the upper hand here, not him, despite what u may think.