Does this girl like me? 10 points for best answer!?

[Jason]

So there is this girl i met on this dating app and she gave me her number and facebook. she told me that shes had an asian boyfriend before (when i was telling her a story about this rude girl She said she wouldnt have given her my number if she didnt think i was attractive and nice (with a )

I asked her if she wanted to grab a drink on thursday and she said that she was meeting up with friends and said "Maybe another time" and that shes never met up wit someone from the internet before and it makes her a little nervous to do so cause she doesnt know what my intentions are.

I was initially kinda angry but didnt show it via txt/msg and instead just played it off cool and she replied: "wow thanks for understand. most guys would take it offensively".
I kinda asked her straight up if she was just letting me off easy and that i didn't want to really waste time and effort BUt she said: "i am really attractive and nice but just got to have precautions" she said shed be more comfortable to skype sometime once she finds her username and password.

A couple days later she told me that shes thought about it and that she was going back to school and that she doesnt really have time to continue any sort of relationship cause she barely has any time for herself (ever sine then she hardly ever updated her facebook) ive msged her a couple times and ive gotten 1-2 replies with: 'hey! how are you; sorry im super busy on the weekdays" i replied with: "nice; you started school already?" and the msg says 'seen" but she hasnt replied (its been like 7-10 days); whats the best way to approach this? thanks

[Caitlin]

I'm going to give you the harsh but blunt no. Chances are shes just using you for attention. Girls are like that, and its cruel and mean. But sometimes we grow tired of the attention we already have so we seek for more. When you asked her to meet up she probably became scared and never had any intention to actually meet you because this wasn't met to be more than talking online. I would give up on the girl truthfully. She's not worth your time. I'm sorry I couldn't give you any hope. Best of luck to you though :-)

[Luza]

I think she might have had a brief infatuation when she went through your pictures, and eventually she might have lost interest. or maybe she's seeing somebody else.

[rozen]

10 Ways to Win a Girl’s Heart
By Kris Wolfe on May 29, 2013 in Dating
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Good Guy Swag: How the average guy can get the beauty queen (Disclaimer: This blog is not intended for the guy who wants a one-night stand. There are books like “The Game” and “The Players Handbook” which can give you great techniques to end up with an empty life and a roster of regrets. If you want the most beautiful girl in the world on the outside and inside, a girl you would be proud to show off to all of your friends AND family, and a girl to build the foundation of a full life together, then “10 Ways to Win a Girl’s Heart” is for you.) image I can’t believe it. In a few weeks I will be marrying my dream girl. She’s the type of woman who blew all of my expectations and checklists out of the water. I look down at her in my arms, and I know I’ve found the treasure of a lifetime. She’s so delicate both physically and emotionally. It’s almost like I’m holding a baby. I want to treat her gently, speak loving words, and plant kisses all over her sweet smelling skin. I can’t help but think, “How did you, Kris, get the most precious jewel in the world????” After all, she’s much more than a beautiful creature to stare at. She’s intelligent, well-spoken, athletic, care-free, and creative. She’s like a fairy tale princess. She was Miss USA!!! The other night, we’re on a hike, and as we get to the top, we encounter the most beautiful view. It’s literally all the colors Kristen picked out for our wedding, and she’s in awe. I am caught in between the most beautiful woman and the most beautiful sunset God has created. I’m talking to her about this blog idea. After all, I want this blog to be the turning point for the good guys out there. I’m all about the underdog coming back for the win, and it just seems the good guy ends up being the one who loses to these generic techniques some greasy dude fine tunes from using over and over again. So, I asked her what things I did to win her over. I should give credit to Kristen because she is the one who really came up with the “10 Ways to Win a Girl’s Heart”. Are you ready to win your dream girl? Here we go…

1. Be pursuant: Pursue her without the pressure. In other words, don’t try to “front” and be cocky. Have a conversation first and show her you are interested beyond her appearance. You don’t have to come up with some crazy pickup line. You can simply say, “I want to introduce myself…” Be sincere and genuine in wanting to get to know her. I see too many good guys get intimidated by a girl’s beauty up front, but take a closer look, and find her true self. Honestly, if you can get past this, you’ll have a leg up on the other idiots out there. After all, being genuine is where you excel the most. This is why you are the good guy!!
2. Be a gentleman: Girls don’t want to be treated like a queen, but they do want to be treated like a princess. She doesn’t want you to be a doormat, she wants you to be the one in charge. Open every door for her, especially the car door. Pull out her chair and allow her to sit down first when you take her on a date, and let her order first. When you are walking alongside the street, you should be the one walking closest to the street. Being a gentleman is being selfless.
3. Be complimentary: On our first date, I told her “You look so beautiful.” I then told her how great she looked when I saw her without makeup the night before. It was real and sincere. While she later revealed to me that she had been testing me to see if I would still like her without makeup, I simply saw a girl who didn’t have enough time because she just got done at the gym. That was incredibly sexy to me.
4. Be creative: You don’t have to blow your bank account to impress her. Think outside the box. I’ve been watching one of my good buds Danny Book pursue his girl right. He took her on a hike in Malibu, CA to waterfalls and then took her to this place called M Cafe complete with swans. He’s also taken her to the Getty museum and the zoo, which are free. Another idea is to take her to a place like Color Me Mine, where you paint your own pottery. Putting thought and originality into a date lets her know you really care about showing her the best in life and it allows you to experience each other across various situations.
5. Be intentional: Invite her to parties, events, and game nights with your friends. I called Kristen every day when I finally got her number. I sent her encouraging text messages and inspirational Bible verses. I told her I wanted to be her man on our fifth date. She wasn’t ready, but she knew what I wanted. I gave her the time she needed with no stipulations, while still pursuing her intentionally. She told me she loved that.
6. Be proud: Speak well of her in front of other people. Hold her hand. Some dating experts recommend saying backhanded compliments, but nothing beats a genuine and sincere compliment. A backhanded compliment might work for a one-night stand, but come on, this is a poisonous ingredient in trying to form a long term relationship. Treat her just as kindly in front of friends and family as you do when you are alone.
7. Be attentive: Show her that you care for her and her needs. Pay attention to the small details. Girls care about the small stuff, big time. For instance, on our first date, I knew Kristen was a vegetarian, so I took her to a vegetarian restaurant called Caff Gratitude. Listen to what she has to say.
8. Be protective: Don’t let her walk alone to her car. If she’s going on a jog or walk at night, tell her you want to go to keep her safe. If she’s going to the gas station at night, go with her. If you’re at a club and she needs to go to the restroom, take her there and wait outside the door.
9. Be a good listener: Ask solid open-ended questions that include “what,” “how,” and “why.” If you’re doing most of the talking, you’re not getting very far with her. Show her you care with body language and by repeating back some of what she just told you.
10. Be romantic: Plan ahead. What do you want your love story to be? You are the writer. When people ask where your first kiss was, you don’t want her to answer with the driveway or that you were drunk at a party. The night I kissed Kristen for the first time, I wanted it to be special. I took her to an overlook on Holland Drive. We stood on top of the city, and that night I was her very own Superman. It was a special moment and I ended up proposing to her there.

Finally, be yourself. There won’t be much longevity if she’s fallen for a false persona, and why would you want that anyway? I’ve come to terms with the fact that I’m not the coolest guy out there, so I have fun in my kindnesses. There is no one else like you, so be confident. When you are walking in truth, “The Game” isn’t necessary. You’ve already won.