Ex has a girlfriend but wants me aswell?

[Amy]

This guys 27 he's my ex I'm only 16 he has a new girlfriend but still says he loves me tells me he wants to be with me and asks me to still see him in his work etc and i go see him bought him stuff for his birthday ad I was heartbroken when I found out he had a new girlfriend and that they had went on holiday together sometimes I cry at night because I miss him I know I sound immature but he's messed me up tried to turn me against my friends and he's the first person I've slept with I don't know what to do everytime I block him on Facebook he makes a knew one

[Valy]

seriously what's up with his spelling?

other than that, i normally understand and encourage different-age couples to be together, but I think he's pulling a bit of a dickmove with you. He's being inconsiderate to both you (by still texting you and obviously hurting you when you're supposed to be moving on from him) and his new girlfriend (imagine being in a relationship with some guy who was still talking to his ex!! I would be furious!!).

Plus, turning you against your friends? Such a dickmove.
I'm serious.

Tell him you're over him and you've moved on, and not to contact you again.
You'll find yourself a much better guy who's willing to love you twice as much without going on holiday with some deluded girlfriend.

[Variable 46]

Whoa boy. Where to start?

First, a 27 year old guy should NOT be dating, let alone intimate, with a 16 year old girl. You may think this guy is Mr. Wonderful but the fact is, he's a pedophile pervert! Anyone who is his age and is still interested in 16 year old girls has some serious problems with his own maturity. Think about it! How pervy would it be if a 16 year old was having sex with someone who was 12? Yeah, you know that's wrong, right? Well, it's just as wrong for this guy to be having sex with you.

Since he's still a child at 27, it's up to you to be the adult. Walk away from this situation NOW. If he continues to harass and stalk you, then tell a responsible adult what happened. This person could be, and frankly SHOULD be arrested. You might be saving some other children from his unhealthy and pervert attention in the future if you act now.

[grrandram]

You're too young for a 27 year old. He can go to jail if anybody found out you and he had sex. Don't be a fool. He has a girlfriend and he doesn't love you. He only wants you for one thing. Just ignore him. Even on facebook.