What Does A Man Really Mean When They Say This?

[Pookah]

I reconnected with a hs friend on Facebook, from the first time we went out he was trying to fuck, I'm a Virgin and my friends are having sex so I thought I would go a head and get it over with since he was the first guy to ever pay attention to me, during the next 3 months with me being at school in a another city, we established a friendship with sex and with no permanent relationship status, my friends tried like hell to stop me and eventually he got tired of me changing my mind. He dumped me basically bit said we can be friends bit not close texting everyday friends. Does he really want to be friends at all? Even when we were supposed to have sex he only texted me every 6 day's on his own, other times I texted him first thinking we should get to know each other and maintain a decent friendship if this was gonna not be awkward. I need to know because he hasn't made any attempt to get in contact with me and it hurts to lose a friend.

[Seidi]

No, he doesnt want to be friends, he probably just wants to keep the minimum conversation with u so he can give u a booty call in case u change ur mind. Sorry if im being too harsh

[Heather]

He just wants the sex. Stop giving it, and youll never hear from him again. Get some self esteem and stop letting him treat you like garbage, and find yourself someone who will actually respect you as a human being

[Natia]

Don't do it. Just don't do it. He has no intention to be friends with you sweetie, trust and believe me. You deserve better than him, but you won;t find it if you keep beckoning to his every booty-call. I am currently going through the same thing and it hurts like Hell that I have to forget about him, but in the end its so much better having nothing to do with him. Hope and wish that things work out for you

[Trinity]

Pookah, I'm sorry but this guy got what he wanted and he's sailing away. You should not have jerked your emotion least of all gotten involved sexually with him. Good thing,. its a new year, you can start all over again on a clean slate.

[684]

He's only interested in your body, let him go he's not worth it.

[curiousniks]

he does'nt want to be friends, he just wants you around so she can have sex with you whenever he needs to then ignore you if he is with other girls. Don't worry about losing a "friend", he is selfish and only uses you for his own pleasures. Friends don't do that, true friends shares in your joys and also in your sufferings. If you think about it, losing a bad friend is actually a gain, not a loss. And try to look for real and better friends, there's a lot out there.