my boyfriend and I been together for almost 2 years, we have a 5 month baby but he cheated and broke up wit me?
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04-02-2014, 10:59 PM
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my boyfriend and I been together for almost 2 years, we have a 5 month baby but he cheated and broke up wit me?
So my boyfriend and I been going out for 1year and almost 11months. We have a 5month old baby. He made me delete every social network accounts that I had but he still had facebook and instagram. Dont get me wrong, we loved each other and were very happy with each other. I been with him through his hardest times. I was with him for 5months when he was sent to a youth correctional facility. I was already pregnant. I wrote a letter to him EVERY SINGLE DAY and called him all the time. he came out early and we were so happy. I gave birth in august and we were SO happy.I was with him when his stepdad passed away. I lived with him for a while too.Then lately we been getting into more fights. I found girls numbers in his phone. And seen old messages to them. And just the other day, his mom told me she found another girl in his bed. My world was crushed and I tried to kill myself. Now he's left me, and told me to get out of his life. I cant stop crying and I still love him ALOT! What do I do:'(
And also to add, we were going to get married. But now he's just changed. His mom told me that she'll help me thru this and will help me become a successful woman. And she's been crying for me too because she said I'm such a nice, beautiful, loving girl and I didnt deserve this happening to me. But lately, I been crying all day, every day. A part of me is asking "why me!? What did I do to deserve this hurt and pain??" And anoyher part of me wants to just end my life. Another part of me wants to just try to move on. But I gave my life up, I gave up everything for him, and I never imagined a future without him. So now I'm lost and confused. I can't eat anything, I can hardly sleep... How do I move on if he's all I ever wanted... Ads |
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04-02-2014, 10:59 PM
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pretend somebody else wrote your letter and read it
He is not worth it Make sure he pays support but find your self a new man Ads |
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04-02-2014, 11:02 PM
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This belongs in Singles & Dating...
...and you file for child support and move on with your life...the two of you were too young to expect anything long term together anyway (rarely are kids your age mature enough to handle serious relationships)... Best of luck to you and your child...focus on getting a college education so you can support yourself and your kid well, and down the road you'll cross paths with someone worthy of your love... |
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04-02-2014, 11:03 PM
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im sorry you have to go through this, my bf cheated on me when i was 9 months pregnant ! I found out a few months ago and our baby is almost 8 months now..he didnt leave me but, I should of left him...I dont think you should be with him...he's cheated on you with a girl you know for sure, so most likely he has with others, since all those numbers...right now, file for child support...I hope you can stay with family not with him? Try to stay strong
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04-02-2014, 11:16 PM
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I definitely know that feeling. Me and my gf of 6yrs broke up a year ago. You can't stop your life because of his wrong doing. You have yourself and a child to look after. Being around family and friends helped me alot thru my situation and maybe it will help you. As long as your alone you will always think about it and be constantly depressed. Thats not good for you. Just focus on your child and yourself and continue to pray to GOD and he will get you through this as we only have but one life to live. I wish you and your baby the best together.
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04-02-2014, 11:26 PM
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He cheated and told you to get out his life then you should. But he cant stop his obligation to your baby.
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