controling girlfriend?

[Jesse]

my girlfriend is always accussing me of lying and cheating yet she is always hiding things behind my back?She has put an app on my phone that intercepts text and calls even deleted. I gave her my facebook password first she deleted all my female friends then changed my password and hijacked it she is constanly accussing me of looking at girls in public .meanwhile her phone is off limits has a password same with her FB the few times I have seen it I see her talking to other men

[Sarah]

some thing is wrong with a relationship when people cannot trust each other and don't respect their privacy and their social activity

[Brooke]

Well I think you should talk to her about it. She's not just a little controlling, she's insanely controlling! I mean, I get jealous sometimes but deleting all your female friends? So you need to tell her straight up she need to calm down and stop being so possessive or maybe you should end things. That doesn't sound fun.

[Daniel]

I would change the passwords up and tell her that if she isn't willing to show you what's on her phone, you aren't willing her what's on yours

[Dragos]

I would be a bit wary of a girl like this. If she is very adamant and accusatory of you, it may be that she is doing something herself. I would not let her cut me off from my friends. As long as my friends respect the relationship boundary there should not be any problem.

I see some early warning signs. Trust your gut on this one. If you're unhappy bring it up with her, either she'll listen or she won't. Simple problem, simple solution.

[Mary]

Do you have a controlling girlfriend? Yes. Is she insecure? Yes. Is she worth it? Maybe... but it has been my experience that that one sided paranoia is often associated with cheating on their part...

at the end of the day, this you YOUR life... Do you want to be with this girl forever? If not, go! Leave! Why invest time you will never get back?

You seem fairly young so go be a guy.. don't walk on egg shells because you're afraid to offend someone who just wants to control you. Change your facebook password and don't tell her the new one. If she doesn't trust you then that's the end... Delete that stupid app she put on your phone- its YOUR phone.

There's a difference between being a nice accommodating boyfriend and just letting someone walk all over you.