Are my friends too sensitive or am i in the wrong?

[Rebelnature]

basically in uni i got invited to a group convo on facebook with my old mates doin a reunion, but i just left. I didnt want to be distracted by work over the holidays as i hadd exams so i left immediately and i find those inboxes irritating sometimes.

But i think they took it to hearr because like a week later i think i had a change of heart and asked them wat they were up to this holiday andd they all completely ignored me. is it really because i left the group convo.

When i did no one put the effort to even asking why i left. Is it really because of something silly like this. Its new years day should i jus forget about my old friends and focus on my uni ones.

Not one wanted to talk to me. I know wat i did was wrong but was it that bad? If im in the wrong jus say so.

[â™ Merlin â™]

you could have said said "sorry guys, up to my eyes in work, will catch up soon"
and it would have saved all of this
however, they are being very petty and school playgroundy about it all

[Ju]

Well, you shouldn't have just left, you should have given an explanatory note to them, wait for a few responses (a civil person wouldn't hold a grudge if you explained yourself), say "thanks for understanding!" and then left. Otherwise it would have felt a little rude, though I don't see why they should ignore you now. They ARE a bit too sensitive I agree, ignoring and holding a grudge over Facebook group chats, which I agree can be annoying because of the amount of notifications you receive, is immature. If you can talk to some of them again then sure, go ahead, it's never bad to have some friends there and some friends elsewhere. But if they continue to hold a grudge immaturely, don't focus on them then. I'm sure they'll eventually let go.