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Should I Give Flowers to a Girl With a Boyfriend on Valentine's Day?
04-04-2014, 04:44 AM
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Should I Give Flowers to a Girl With a Boyfriend on Valentine's Day?
I work with a girl who has a boyfriend that lives several states away. She is extremely cute and we get along very well although we only ever see each other at work. I think she likes me because she always stares at me and smiles for no reason while we're working but I've never done anything to get in the middle of her relationship. I tried adding her on Facebook when I first met her and she took me off her friends list a day later because her boyfriend doesn't like her talking to other guys.

So anyway, one time while I was out on the lot, this limousine pulled up and a girl got out and gave me a white rose. She said she was on a game show and told me to give it to someone I loved. I was kind of confused but she ran off before I could ask questions. I wasn't really in love with anyone so I gave it to this cute girl I'm talking about. I said "this is for you" and explained what had happened. She just took it and thought it was funny/interesting.

Now Valentine's Day is coming up and I thought it would be the perfect chance to do something special. I want to buy a single white rose and maybe a box of chocolates then inconspicuously leave it in the breakroom with her name on it. I won't tell her or anybody that it's from me. I'm afraid of how she might react though because I've never done anything so straightforward with her. I don't have anything against the boyfriend, I just really like this girl. Good or bad idea?
Thanks for all the responses so far. I am planning on her knowing that the white rose is from me. I just don't want to walk up to her and hand her a flower in front of all my coworkers because I don't want to embarrass her.

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04-04-2014, 04:47 AM
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Only if you&#x27;re going to fight for her and accept all the consequences

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04-04-2014, 05:02 AM
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Well I think she doesn't really like her boyfriend especially since he lives far away and seems controlling cause he won't let her talk to other guys. I would say its a okay idea to see what she thinks, though I wouldn't hide the fact it's from you. Just act like her friend giving her something special. She might even like you, all you gotta do is see her reaction and what happens from there on up.
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04-04-2014, 05:17 AM
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Bad idea. I would wait until she and that guy break up. You also don&#x27;t want to get her in trouble with her boyfriend because then she DEFINITELY won&#x27;t like u. Even though you guys have a bit of a flirtationship going, that seems like that is all it is. I would back off for now, but that doesn&#x27;t mean forever! You never know... Good things come to those who wait!
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04-04-2014, 05:31 AM
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only if you are willing to get caught ( I did a fake love note for this annoying inappropriate kid and it backfired) also you might have to fight for her and she&#x27;ll probably find out it&#x27;s you so if your willing to get caught and answer awkward questions go for It bro
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04-04-2014, 05:46 AM
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Although you seem like a really great guy and your idea is very thoughtful, you must respect that she is with someone else. Maybe it would be OK to pass by her desk and verbally wish her a Happy Valentine's Day.
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