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Girls, do you think age difference matter?
04-04-2014, 01:08 PM
Post: #1
Girls, do you think age difference matter?
It all started when I message a local girl in facebook. I would say that from then on, we sort of "connect". Same birthday, same favourite food, colour, taste in music, were both lefty and there's a lot more to add. She always message me first and use so much emoticons such as smiley face. So after talking to her for 4 days, I asked her to go bowling with me and we did( she won). And we drove around town and grabbed something to eat. There wasn't any awkward situation in fact, we were so comfortable with each other right from the time I picked her up, up to the time I dropped her off to her house. We flirted a lot and again, she kept talking about me loosing bowling. I didn't get to kiss her or even open the car door for her because I was thinking about the kiss. The next morning she messaged me saying " I just wanted to say that I had a great time with you so thanks Smile"..
She even rated it 9/10. Two days after, asked her if she wants to grab sushi(she loves it) and she said that she's busy with school and stuff. She even said "I'm not sure honestly I just have a lot of stuff going on right now I really want to but I just can't and trust me I'm not trying to make excuses because I really did have fun and I want to see you again Smile"..
Here's my problem, she's 17 but she's so mature for a 17 year old and I'm 22. She thinks I'm 20 and I lied because I never thought I'd like a girl like her so I didn't give a crap t first. With so much in common with this girl.... I can't blame myself.. I was just too scared of getting rejected so that's why I lied. She said that she doesn't care I'm 20.

My questions:
Do you think she will be mad if I tell her the truth?
Is it bad for me to date 5 years younger than me?
Do you guys think she likes me?
Do you think I'll have a chance or not with her?
No rude comments please

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04-04-2014, 01:15 PM
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Take her out on valentine&#x27;s day and tell her ur real age over dinner

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04-04-2014, 01:23 PM
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Yes, but fess up about your age difference. That will help. Don't lie any more because lying is bad for relationships. Good luck.
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04-04-2014, 01:33 PM
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I say you call her before you take her out you don&#x27;t know how she will react. Just say you are sorry and you lied Becuase you care or something like that! if she&#x27;s mad try and fix it
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04-04-2014, 01:37 PM
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Age doesn&#x27;t matter - maturity does - but thier is exception to the rule if the guy is 40yrs. Older than you - you might think about it .
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04-04-2014, 01:52 PM
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OK my parents before they got a divorce had a SIX year age gap. She will be mad that u lied but just explain. And yes she likes u and last but not least yup u guys will last. XD im rooting for u
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04-04-2014, 02:02 PM
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She might be mad when you tell her, maybe a bit hurt you didnt tell her sooner, just reassure her you arent lying about anything else, but if you are then come clean. However if she doesn't like you when she finds out about the age difference, don't make her feel bad, don't force her or pressure her into being with you or make her feel guilty as it is ultimately your fault for not being honest, not hers. If she still likes you after finding out then; No, it's not bad as long as you're both mature about it and can handle other people's (possibly negative) opinions upon the matter. She probably does like you, yes. I think you have a chance with her, just ask her out again and come clean about the fact you lied. Don't do it over text, that would be unfair on her. Good luck.
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04-04-2014, 02:11 PM
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answers

1:No,but she'll probably ask why u lied.just tell her the truth
2:depends on how mature she is;immature girls are a guaranteed pain in the ass & you've got nothing to gain.if she IS mature in attitude then go for it.
3:Yes,but she's cautious..taking it one step at a time.i suggest you do the same.
4:Yes,but again:it depends...on you & her both.if you're cool but she's not and messes things up then there's little u can do about that.it takes 2 to tango.
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04-04-2014, 02:18 PM
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Age defo doesn&#x27;t matter at all!! Age is just a number. My x bf was 5 years older than me.
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04-04-2014, 02:25 PM
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No matter if you tell he the truth. Just explain to her why you told you were 20 and not 22.
No problem to date a girl 5 years younger than you. If you two love each other, respect each other, there is no problem.

Well, I can't say she likes you because I have to see her eyes and her reactions when she is next to you.

If you'll have any chance with her...you have to try first. It's better to try. ^^ At least you tried and if she likes you, great! If she doesn't, at least you tried, so you can go after another girl without regrets.

Good luck!!!
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