is it a good idea to exchange facebook/twitter and email passwords with your gf of 2 years?

[Commander Sheperd]

well, she wants to have all my passwords, but i am reluctant, i am not hiding anything. I just want my privacy. but she does not get it. shes starting to think i am hiding something. should i just give her to prove her wrong?

[Ahmed]

If you really are hiding nothing then why not. but you can never trust anyone even your gf about such things with great privacy so change the password after a bit.

[MARLIN]

No, definitely no. She can read your postings and see what is happening. There is absolutely no reason for her to have passwords.

There is either a trust issue with her or she is making a power play. You need to look carefully at your relationship and see from the past which one is true. If you are honest, you will see that she has been doing things like this to you since you got together.

Its not a matter of privacy, you have nothing to hide! Its a matter that she wants or needs to have you give up some more control of your life to her and her desires. Why, I don't know.

Think seriously about what all this means and how its been playing out.