Why if there's not another girl?

[Samantha]

I am JUST ASKING. It is NOT so I can try and get back with him. I just want to know why


My ex and I broke up almost a year ago, after being together for almost 2 years.


For the past 6-7 months, we were good friends. Like hanging out, texting a lot, and going out together.
In January, we went to a professional basketball game together and a trip with two couples.


3 weeks ago, we got into an argument about how we're not dating, but I assumed we were slowly starting.
We didn't talk for 2 weeks until last week when I saw him…. And it wasn't good


Long story short, he said we "don't have to talk because we're not dating" and doesn't want to be friends because it's called "moving on"… I HAD NO IDEA WHERE THIS WAS COMING FROM, since we had JUST done on a trip together.

So I unfriended me on Facebook on Saturday, for whatever reason
And now I have to see hime every Sunday because we are in the same soccer league
I saw him yesterday, we made eye contact twice, but that was it

(I know there isn't another girl. 99% positive. We have mutual friends, and I know the brother)



HE'S the one that ended everything… So why can't he be civil? I haven't done anything.
I don't understand the mindset...

and him acting like he wants nothing to do with me isn't the first time it's happened… It happened once in August, when we blocked me on Facebook and we didn't talk for 2 1/2 weeks
And once in October, where we had a HUGE argument and didn't talk for almost a month
OH MY GOD, you guys clearly didn't understand: HE was the one that ended the relationship, I was the one that thought we were getting back together

[Bassmaster54]

Ok, I am going to be blunt with you. Not trying to hurt your feelings, just going to be honest.You need to take the hint. He said it is called moving on and that is what he is trying to do. The trip you two went on probably made him feel like a couple again and if that is not what he wants then he is just trying to make it clear and cut you out of his life. If he does not want anything to do with you then you should want nothing to do with him. Oh well, you see him at soccer. So what? That's like 2 -3 hours and you do not even talk so it really should not be that big of a deal. He is not acting civil because he probably has a lot on his mind and does not know how to deal with everything. I know it seems weird because everything ended on good terms and then went south out of nowhere but he just feels he needs to be away from you so he can get over it and if you really do have no intentions of getting him back, then let him go.

[Steven Ewing]

He is pis$ed, and his attitude is anger, so look to the reason(s) you two broke up, and address exactly your contribution to those reasons. Quite honestly, why try to reconcile attitudes when the guy doesn't like you. He is really angry, and it isn't fading, it is festering. You are being blamed in his estimation for wasting his time and rejecting his persona, for the relationship he believes he committed 100% to. In fact, he is acting much like a man scorned for being faithful and not sharing any reward, including no sex. You should just move on, and write him off.