Why is she mad at me?

[Has]

I am very good friends with this girl and we talk almost every day. Last night she sent me a text saying "hey, stranger" given we hadn't talked for 4 days and I responded "hello there. (her name), right? lol. how are ya?" and she responded "that was kinda rude but ok, I'm fine". I apologized of course and we sort of patched things up although I did it not know what I said that could have come off as rude, and she admitted to being bothered by it but never told me why she though it was rude. Anyone care to shed some light on this?

P.S. I don't know if it helps or if it has anything to do with this but about a month ago I told this girl that I liked her and she said she liked me back but didn't want a relationship now.

[Lovely]

Because she's probably an immature teen or young adult going through a massive change and burst of hormones, causing her to throw emotional tantrums we call PMS.

[Ec]

Hmmm could of been offended by you calling her by her name instead of some cute nick name like sweety or hunn. Females.

[Ramona]

Sounds like your trying to make a joke, didn't work!!!

[Celeste]

well their it is, im a girl so i know this. She knows you like her and by texting her you made her feel special, when you didnt text her for 4 days she felt distant and like something or someone was missing which was you texting her. she really likes you and i can bet that during thoes 4 days she wanted to text you but chose not too due to that she did not want to annoy you. If you really like her get to know her more hang out more talk more let her know where you stand! where both of you guys stand. I think everyone goes through this not just teens im 20 years old and i constantly go through this i like feeling speacial and when the guy that i know likes me doesnt text me for days i notice it the first day when i dont hear from him. Shes upset with you because she found it rude and felt like you were avoiding her. Yes girls are very strange.

[Jaron]

Hello friend. I'm sorry about your situation. I'm a dating coach and I have a talent for gauging a woman's interest level. Her interest level is very low. I'm sorry to break the new to you but you made a mistake when telling her that you like her. Verbalizing feelings kills challenge. It communicates to the woman that she has a higher social value than you do and that you will stick around until she decides to dump you. In marketing it is more difficult to sale products that consumers know will be around forever but as soon as they become scarce they get sold out very quickly. There is an actual evolutionary reason for this that I won't get into but the point here is that she knows that she has you and can buy you at any time.

The second mistake you made was buying her womanese. She told you, "I like you but I'm not looking for a relationship right now." This is the #1 rejection in the dating world. Let me translate this from womanese to english: "I'm not romantically interested in you and will never want to be in a relationship with you." Think about it. If Channing Tatum asked her to be with him would he get the same response. Probably not because she would have a high interest in him. You are in the friend zone and it won't be easy to get out of it.

One thing you did correct was when she texted you saying, "Hey stranger", you responded with, "Hello there, [here name] right?". You were being fun and playful. Women with low interest level won't play back with you. She got upset because of her low interest. You communicated interest in a way that was a challenge to her. If she was interested she would have played back or given you a positive response to it. It's supposed to be fun and cheesy. It's not supposed to be funny. The secret is that women with high interest level will laugh at it. If she had a low romantic interest it would eventually make her feel comfortable enough to break down her barriers allowing her to open up to you emotionally(raise her level of interest).

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