How can I get my ex boyfriend back? please help me!?

[Maria]

I love him more than anything else in this world. He used to tell me that after God his mom and I were all he had. but suddenly everything went wrong. he broke up with me by just telling me that he doesn't want to be with a girl anymore. the night before my father had bought me a vaio laptop. my previous one was broken. I got really excited and wanted to let him know this. and told him. he broke up with me the day after. It sounds irrelevant but this is exactly why he broke up with me I guess!
2 monthes later I chatted with him on facebook not as me but as someone else ( As another girl and he didn't know it was me and never found out either). I wanted to make him miss me so that unreal girl on facebook sounded really bad. a selfish girl who only wants a boyfriend for money ( that's all)
he rejected her after he found out this and said:" you girls are all the same! all you care about is money. you are all jerks and I hate all of you. now go away "
I cried really hard. so that was the reason he broke up with me! he was wrong!
all of our meetings were in the street just walking together I never asked him to buy anything for me.and he sent me text messeges just as many as I sent him. how can he think about me like a selfish stupid girl? I got heart broken more than ever.
as the un real girl on face book I told him as a reply to what he said:" So what? you have to buy me everything I like ! take me to most expensive restaurants and...." by telling him this I wanted to let him know that he was wrong about me. but he said again what he had said before to that girl.
sorry I got this too long and I am sorry for my awful grammer as well cause English is not my mother tounge . there is something you should know about him: he lost his dad when he was 10 and since then he has worked really hard. he left university because he didn't have enough money. that's why he may sound sensitive. but I didn't do anything wrong I swear. I think that telling him that my dad has replaced my Vaio may have made him assume that I am showing off. both my dad and his money!
but All I really wanted to do was sharing my happiness with him. he knew how bad the previous one was!
he is 24 and I am 20.
It's been 3 monthes I haven't seen him or talked to him or even texted him. I am dying. I cry every night. he hates me for a wrong reason. we are still friends on face book though. I don't know why he doesn't unfriend me he just hates me.
the only way I can contact him now is by phone and facebook (the wrongest way) I can't see him because we met on the street.
please help me get him back. what can I do? I am so miserable.

[Shelly]

Have you ever thought that maybe just maybe he wasnt talking about you? If you say you never did nothing wrong (and i believe you) then maybe he was talking about another female. Just saying, not trying to put stuff in your head but you never know. Well all i can say is maybe contact him and see how hes been. But if he ends up being distant and not interested then please try your best to move on. Everybody has bad break ups its nothing new. Just stay strong and leave him alone or else your just gonna annoy him.

[Jay B]

You are both WAY too old for this. Pretending to be someone else on Facebook is deceitful and honestly, really childish. No matter what your intentions were. Instead of talking to him face to face like an adult, you chose to do something immature. If he knew about the fake Facebook account, do you think he'd want you back? You need to reflect on how you're acting.

If he has issues with his dad and feeling like people are more fortunate/financially better off than him, that's a personal issue he needs to hash out by himself. There's nothing you can do about it. And at 24, he should have his priorities in order and get that chip off his shoulder.

If it's been 3 months, you need to move on. Stop being hung up on this guy, he has issues he needs to sort out before he can stop feeling resentment for people. And you need to stop pining after him. You may be hurting, but you really need to start believing that you will be okay without him, because you will be. I guarantee it.

But resorting to making a fake persona is too much, and trying to win him back is too much. Whatever went wrong probably wasn't your fault, but if it's not meant to be, it's not meant to be.