I feel like something's wrong with me, why don't people like me for who I am?
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04-05-2014, 10:47 AM
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I feel like something's wrong with me, why don't people like me for who I am?
I don't know why. I always try to be nice but I just feel like I'm pathetic or annoying people. At school I see everyone having a close or best friend they can be themselves around. I can never be myself around anyone(Except a girl but I haven't talked to her anymore)
I tried joining hobby groups, I do horse riding that's what I would like to do in the future, but even there I see girls hugging eachother. I WAS myself there but people didn't like me as I was. When I wasn't myself it just seemed like people came around me more, but it's very uncomfortable not to be yourself. I cry and am jealous while looking at girls who post pictures on facebook on how much fun they had. Why do I feel like I"m annoying everyone and am pathetic? I TRIED to be confident and believe me I AM confident,but that feeling people give me has put me down a lot. Also about that girl I haven't talked to her since I felt the same way towards her at a point. Also, for some reason online I have TONS of friends, real friends I can be myself around with. They love me for who I am, I have many online best friends.. why can't it be the same irl? :/ Ads |
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04-05-2014, 10:55 AM
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Just continue to be yourself, and eventually, people who like your personality will come your way.
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04-05-2014, 11:01 AM
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Don't worry about it dude, ok let me tell you my story
So i used to go to a boarding school in a different city, i made really close, fun friends but then i left the school and started a new school, my friends all lived in different places so yeah In my new school everyone had their own friends already and i felt like a complete outsider! I had the same sort of feelings as you seriously i used to cry at home and think ohh im wasting my life- i havent got any frienndds- borring life.. But i dunno its been a few years now and i'm in my final year at school, i love my friends and its all great im friends with loadsa people, i hope the same will happen for you! By the way online friends are not real!! Sorry So let me give you advice!!! 1) be yourself. If they dont like you when you are yourself then they are not worth it 2) relax!! Talk about stuff you have in common, joke about Ask: "do you like one direction ( im joking ask about what you like- something interesting) |
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