Boyfriend likes girls pictures on Instagram?

[amanda! (:]

I've been dating my boyfriend for just about a year though. We've both made it really clear that we're looking for a serious relationship that comes with commitment. We both didn't want to hold a relationship for the hell of it, so since the beginning I've been holding our relationship to a very high standard, but for the most part(besides the occasional arguments) everything has been pretty great.

I figured out, however, that my boyfriend likes girls pictures on instagram. These pictures aren't dirty or naughty, just girls taking "selfies" or mirror pictures. Girls that I can admit are attractive. This sort of unsettled me... I guess it's not necessarily the fact that he finds other girls attractive, because every guy finds other girls attractive, but the fact that he feels the need to publicize it by hitting the like button.

I asked him conversationally while hanging out what he thought about liking people's pictures on social media websites when someone's in a relationship. He told me that he's against it unless the person is liking a friend's picture. I realized that a couple of the pictures are girls that I know and know that he's friends with, although some of them are girls I don't know.

The problem is, I'd address him about knowing, but I don't actually have my own instagram. I figured this out by a mix of snooping a friend bringing it up. I feel like telling him I know would spark insane confusion because he knows I don't have an account, but it just makes me feel uncomfortable. Should I even feel uncomfortable in the first place or am I being too jealous?

[denis]

E isso ai garota continue assim que você vai conseguir

[Joshua]

You're being wayyyyyyyyyyyy to jealous/clingy!! It's just a picture and like you said they aren't even dirty or naughty pictures. Give the guy some room to breathe god damn..

[me]

It's disrespectful. Despite what society thinks about how women should put up with endless amounts of crap or they're "insecure" and "jealous," it's fine to be pissed.

I would make my own instagram and then add him if I were you. Or better yet, if you both have facebook, start liking other guys' photos on facebook. Then when he confronts you just be like "Uhh you do it on instagram so why shouldn't I get to do it too?"

If he asks how you know just say one of your friends mentioned it or something

[Coach]

I am having the same problem. I feel as if Instagram is going to ruin a lot of relationships. Especially mine! But I think my problem is a tad bigger than yours. He COMMENTS and likes attractive girls pictures. Like "tbh-your sexy" &" you got a ASS" like what the hell. It really pisses me off and I've let him know. He swears he's innocent but I have the password to his instagram. But I'm working through it. At first I was just jealous, but that's not the case. But he hasn't done it recently anymore. But just confront him or tell him if he really loves you that he will delete his instagram

[Bobby]

Well I wouldn't know what to do considering ive never been in a relationship or dated

Answer my question if you wanna know more about it, ita related to white girls
http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index?qid=20140119094906AADcTpk


The best advice I can try to give you I'd to tell your boyfriend to ease up of the girls photos on instagram, or you'll esse the hell up out of the relationship


Btw yo isn't no reason to be jealous if yo are. You are the one in a relationship lol

[Brian]

Social media is pure evil. People's lives get ruined daily by it yet the general public is too ignorant to stop using it. The one thing you failed to see is that he lied directly to your face. That alone should tell you where your relationship with him is heading and hopefully you don't have that much invested with him (like living together) where it's not too late to easily bail out.

He has an addiction problem and needs help, unfortunately he neither desires this from you nor does he want help. Such an addiction will destroy you if you carry on with him further. You'll eventually find that it'll be you working to keep the relationship together and he'll do little to nothing.

It won't be an easy thing to do since you're putting a lot of hope into him but by posting your question I think you know it's the best thing to do.

In regard to your snooping, you don't have trust in the relationship. If you did you wouldn't have snooped. This is just another added fact that you need to set him free. It won't be easy but I think you know you need to consider this option.

Good luck.