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My mum found my private tumblr and wants to "talk"?
04-06-2014, 06:13 AM
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My mum found my private tumblr and wants to "talk"?
I accidentally left my tumblr open on Thursday night when I locked the family iPad, and my mum opened it a few hours later and looked at it. My tumblr is private and has a lot of stuff about my depression, my self harming and suicidal thoughts, it also has a lot about my feelings. She mentioned it briefly yesterday morning, expressing concern, but after a quick discussion and me saying I was okay now and that all those posts are old, we left it. Now today, I accidentally opened her facebook message when I tried to get rid of the notification and the message she sent to a friend said that she's taking me to the doctor's on Monday and taking me out tomorrow alone to talk about it all, she also said Im unaware that she looked at ALL my posts, all of which she hasn't told me about. Now I'm absolutely petrified, I don't know what she's going to say or what I'm going to say, we're not exactly close. I didn't want her to know about my feelings as she may feel let down, and she might be so patronising for the rest of my life now. I'm really scared, any advice about what to do?

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04-06-2014, 06:23 AM
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Why are you petrified? Surely you would expect your mum to be concerned about your welfare? It just shows what a caring person she is. Respect you mum and allow her to do her job, which is to look after you. Remember also that she won't be around forever to care for you so what happens now is important.

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04-06-2014, 06:31 AM
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I suspect that all she wants to do is to help you. Are you happy about being depressed and self harming? If you are, then tell her you are - I bet you are not though. If you would prefer to live a normal life, take the opportunity to allow her to help you. She is probably shocked, angry and sad. So would you be if you discovered your child had been miserable enough to do bad things to herself and you hadn't realised.
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04-06-2014, 06:45 AM
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email me to talk about this
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04-06-2014, 06:58 AM
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Its all to late now - you opened 'pandora's box' when you forgot to close properly.

Your mum must have had a 'terrible shock' when she read all your comments. She as a parent has the right to make sure 'you' are OK (medical visit)....after what she read - if she didn't do that....she'd be failing as a parent.!!

When 'warning signs' are displayed (your post)....however found out - the problems found have to be looked into....on all levels.

If you mum's alarm bells are ringing - you can bet she has investigated further regarding you internet usage.....and whats be going on in general.
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04-06-2014, 07:14 AM
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Please don&#x27;t email that person &quot;forgot&quot; he posts this on everything.
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