should I ditch her like she did to me forever?

[Hot Chocolate]

I have been on and off with my friend for a while now. Last year we didn't talk from June to August because she kept writing indirect messages about me on facebook and she would travel down to my town just to see her boyfriend but never me. We started talking again and we both apolygised.
We started chatting on the phone too.
I invited her out for my birthday like weeks in advance and she started making excuses and wanting her boyfriend to come but I made it clear that it's a girls night only. So I texted her again and she said she can't come out for my birthday because she's doing something with his family. So she wished me for my birthday by text and on facebook. As soon as I uploaded pictures from my night out (it has my other good friend in my pictures) she put a status indirectly aimed at me which said something about thinking you were someone s best friend but not anymore as they are not real friends. I just felt like commenting back saying shes wrong.Should I cut her off?

[Jaime]

Forget about her she's not making an effort!!

[kmjuhbhl]

She sounds rather disinterested in your life and probably narcissistic in nature and loves to be dramatic about it. In my experiences with these types of people, you should probably cut all contact and ignore any attempts to reconnect with you. Narcissists get off on hurting people and their feelings. If she is this type of personality, you're probably seen as little more than a supply to her ego. When you initiate no contact, she will either begin a slander campaign against you and try to shame you/GET YOU TO APOLOGIZE TO HER, or care so little that that she will act like you virtually never existed to begin with.

If you choose to initiate no contact, just be strong and remind yourself that you aren't the one in the wrong and you deserve to be treated better. Be prepared to do things like state clearly for her that she is not to contact you and reinforce those boundaries. There are phone apps that will block numbers now, but if that isn't enough, you may have to change yours.

[389]

She's not a friend period. She has bluntly declined invitations that were planned out weeks in advance but she is apparently not busy to anything and everything with her "boyfriend" and his family.

She also does not sound happy at all. Forget her, block her on Facebook and do NOT respond to her message on facebook. She is just trying to get you riled up, so she can post back and say more rotten things to make you look bad on a social media site.

Yes move on and forget her.