I need help about a guy?

[summersunset]

So, me and this guy gave been out twice, and both times I was the one to break up with him. The problem is we like never talked. We talked over Facebook and stuff and we said we loved each other all the time, but in person the most we said in a day was maybe about 10 words. What is confusing me the most is that he has always been a very popular kid and one of the really loud and naughty boys in class and I am a very quiet girl, but whenever we would hang out, both of us would hardly speak. And when we did, both of our faces were red and he sounded so serious or like kinda scared. I see now that other gf's he's had, he talks to and jokes around with, and it doesn't last for long. (The longest ours lasted for was 6 months) Now I always seem to think about him and I'm not sure if I love him or just kind of still have a crush. Oh and when we were going out he always used to send 'morning beautiful xx' as soon as he got up and he was always so so sweet. Can someone explain to me why he changed so much towards me and just what the heck is going on haha

It would mean a lot!

[Tessah]

Sounds a bit like the first relationship I had, which was also in school, when your younger its always easier to get to know each other over the Internet but its also a silly way because as you've Learnt now people can be a lot different in person. I honestly think the main problem is both your ages where as you may feel ready to start experiencing relationships the guy your interested in obviously isn't mature enough. Even if he would like to think so. It's just a crush. I'd look for someone maybe a year older who's linked to your friend group somehow so you can get to know them better, boys are usually slower to mature so you might find the year makes a difference