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What should I do next time she texts me and tries to play the victim? Should I cut all ties or be friends?
04-07-2014, 09:51 AM
Post: #1
What should I do next time she texts me and tries to play the victim? Should I cut all ties or be friends?
I have known this girl since November. We really liked each other. After Christmas she has been acting very different. She has been avoiding to hang out with me and has all these excuses. Ever since she went to a party on Christmas Day she has been so sexual but around her family, friend and social media she acts like this good Christian girl. Two nights ago she told me that she does not want me to wait for her because she is not ready to date. Last night I told her I was moving on and she said all of these things how I am just like every guy since I am leaving her. On her blog she wrote how she has turned to sex and smoking but she is done and is changing her life for the better. However any time her ex texts her to come over she does, they have sex, then he ditches her for someone else. Some of her tweets and old blog posts have indicated that so I asked her about her ex and asked her if she is still hung up on him. She denied it. This morning however I see something in her blog post that erased all doubt that she has been seeing him. She even mentioned having sex.

you could have said no…you didn't have to go there..you could have slapped him and tried to fight back..”

That is what she wrote. She also said in her blog post that this happened recently. I feel like she has been lying to me this whole time. Next time she texts me I plan on ignoring her. The thing is if I do she will play the victim and blame me. Should I just confront her if she does that or continue not to reply?

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04-07-2014, 09:53 AM
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She is playing mind games and using you, is absolutely not worth it. Wait and see how things turn out and eventually you&#x27;d meet your &#x27;one&#x27;.

Ditch her, don&#x27;t bother being friends she sounds like a cluster-fluck of confusion.

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04-07-2014, 10:06 AM
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Stop trying to help her, she's a lost cause. Don't let her bring you down.
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