Does my crush seem gay?

[Nancy]

Ok so I've been liking this guy for a while, but my friends have been telling me that he's gay. His facebook profile says that he's interested in women and single, but his hobbies stil suggest that he's not straight. I'm not saying that every guy who does any of these things is gay, but when they're all put together it just seems like it:

He has a pink backpack
Sings showtunes
Hangs out with mostly girls (actually, I've never seen him hang out w/ a guy at school before)
Gets really offended by the word fggt
Was on the diving team and wears speedos
Is involved in school plays
In color guard
ALSO: One time my friend actually said to him "there are rumors of you being gay but I know that's not true..." and he only replied "ok". Was he trying to avoid talking about it?

[605]

He may be a bisexual but in reality he is mostly likely a straight.


''"there are rumors of you being gay but I know that's not true..." and he only replied "ok''
So?

People ask me weird question such as are you gay? I said yes anyway

[Curtis]

Who cares don't put a label on hin let him . Don't judge a book by its cover open the book and read it. You be amaze on what you read. In other words get to know him .

[Cristhian]

Sounds like it.

[Clarisse]

I also have a crush who is similar with yours. He likes classical movies, classical books, indie music. He does not play basketball but he is into swimming. He's not really manly and gentleman at all and he's also averagely thin, without the muscles and biceps and the manly stuffs. I love him so much. I never listened to my bunch of friends who keep on saying that he is gay. They say he's gay because of the way he moves (pretty lame for a guy), his fashion sense (you know the Topman look with his pants folded or printed shorts, pretty much of a hipster look), his physical appearance is also very clean and prim and proper for a stereotyped-messy-supposedly image of a guy (metrosexual you could say). I know he is normal and just the way he is. I knew he was just like that and it's normal for him to be not so manly or gayish because he came from a boy school and maybe that's the way of life there. I really had no idea, or maybe I have always been used to gayish stuffs because I'm a Kpop fan and there are lots of gay stuffs in Kpop so I figure out maybe I was just immuned to some guys being feminine-ish. Or maybe I was just deeply in love with him that I did not really mind if he was really gay after all. He also had girl crushes, though. I was always teasing him saying that if he's gay just tell it to me and i will keep it a secret, in a joking way. He would always only reply to me that I was a headache. He also hangs out more often with girls and gays than guys. I've been liking him for almost three years now; he knows it but he has never flirted with me.

He has boyfriend now. (Okay so they're not actually together, I just exaggerated it a little bit.) He has a lover now (that sounded better). What I felt? I don't know. I was relieved, hurt, shocked, I-knew-it feels, heartbroken, speechless, and just completely nothing. I knew he really did not like me and I was really really scared if he'd get a girlfriend. I said I would not be able to bear it if he started having a girlfriend. I would die (not literally) if he would have one. Was I hurt? Yes. Because of all the efforts I've invested, of all the time, the sacrifices, the determination, the love i've given for him for couple of years. Was I heartbroken? Yes but not. I think I can't do anything anymore if he really does not like the opposite sex. I would be heartbroken if it was a girl because then I'd be really hurt why you did not like me instead (feels like whats wrong with me, am i really that ugly and shizz), but since it's a guy then i'd really have nothing left to fight for because he does not like vagina at all. I'm more of in the acceptance stage already. But I still love him.

We're really good friends right now. He apologized for not reciprocating feelings for me. I said I completely understand and he has nothing to say sorry about. I feel like I need to protect him from judgmental people and the homophobic jerks. Do I still hope that he'll love me back someday? I don't want to be a hypocrite so I'd still say yes. Although, I somehow accepted already the current condition, I'm still hoping that one day I will know how to be loved by him. But as of now, I already created a boundary of the limitation of the feelings that I need to exert for him in order for me not to get hurt again. I still love him, and I know that he also loves me as a really good friend and it just ends right there. So my advice for you, take care of your feelings. If there's a smoke, there's a fire. People (even you) notice that he's gay (or bisexual), so most probably he really is. But there's also a pretty good chance that he's straight and he's just really like that at all. If he is, accept it and move on. If he is not, lucky for you! I am also saying that do not jump into conclusions yet. You must have concrete evidences to prove that he really is gay, or maybe coming it right from his mouth that he is really gay (or bisexual) would do. You can also use your girl instinct (like what i had). Whatever he is, accept him like I do. I did not get mad. In fact I was grateful because I was given a chance to know better the people belonging to the third sex and know how they really think and feel. I am still his very good friend. We've always been good friends (despite my unrequited love). Nothing has completely changed. I accept him just the way he is because I love him and we're very good friends (yeah im saying this for the nth time). Just go with the flow. You'll end up with each other if you're really meant to be. You have your freewill to love, you can use it, but if it's really God's plan for you, He will give that person to you. If it's not, maybe God has other better person that is really meant to be with you for the rest of your life.