Lonely on Valentine's day?

[john]

My ex girlfriend broke up with me 3 weeks ago because she was overwhelmed with stressed and our schedule's started to fill up. She knew I wasn't satisfied with one day on the weekend, and that hurt her a lot because and there wasn't anything she can do about it, so she waited for a fight and used that to trigger the break up. She was crying to me in person as she was doing it and said she still loved me. She was the first person who I can say I've actually loved and loved me back. I was still happy in the relationship as I've never experienced love before and I smiled every time I woke up knowing that somebody cared about me in a romantic way. I'm a senior in high school, and all my past relationships never got to Valentine's day. I guess you can say a 'goal' of mine was to take a girl out on Valentine's day in high school, but sadly it didn't happen. My friends are all busy today for the most part, so I'm in my room with comfort foods but it doesn't really help ease the pain. I still care about this girl just as much, even though it's over. Any advice to help ease the pain?

[popo]

you'd better find anther one is the best way

[Mana Superman]

I'm sorry to hear about the news. The best thing you can do is move on and find another one and that would be better for you. Or, try contacting her and let her know that you still love her and want to do something special for her. Hope this will help.

[Jtis Me]

Okay. Bottom line. She broke up with you. Looks like that's it to me. When someone breaks up with you then that's it. It's not the end of the world for you, better yet it's the beginning again. Smile, laugh, flirt, and be happy. No girl will be able to resist that. You can take it to the bank. Give yourself a little time to get past this but don't waste too much time on it. The girls are waiting for you and you just might make it to next Valentine's Day!

[Rayne]

Nothing anyone says will make this better. But trust us when we tell you that, "this too, shall pass..." I was in highschool and my 1st love broke up with me...I thought I would never get over it. You will and you prob don't want to hear this but it's true!

You have to respect her that she told you. Most people end up cheating to get out of a relationship they don't want anymore. What you can do is...Try ONE more time after you give her some space/ at least 2 weeks without ANY contact/ none/ no social media/ no checking in/ nothing.

This way, you can tell yourself you tried and you cannot force anyone to feel a certain way.

I believe you have to go through the pain before you can appreciate your future girlfriend that much more. It's going to be hard and uncomfortable but you will make it through as "Nothing lasts Forever, the good nor the bad times; nothing"

Hoping for the best...