I'm 16 and still don't have a girlfriend?

[Incognito]

I feel like a total loser... I've never held a girl's hand, gone on a date, had sex. I have absolutely no friends or social life. I'm not sure what to do at the moment, I'm kinda depressed right now... I just wish I had a girlfriend or even just a friend really that I could talk to. I'm really tired of being alone.

I used to have a group of friends, but I stopped going to church so they all stopped talking to me and now act they like i'm not ever there.

So any advice will be greatly appreciated.

[Lux The Female]

I'm 23 and never been on a date. Everything will work out,
don't rush or go looking for it. You'll be surprised if you just give up
looking etc etc and marriage will come to you.

You wanting sex sex sex makes you whore-like, maybe wait for marriage.
I didn't have a social life or friends either for most of my life too... I didn't.....now I do.

Maybe you should go back to Church, and talk with someone to help
guide you or give more grown up advice, you know?
I recently went back to Church last year, and now I THINK (lol lol)
I have a date, all thanks to God, we're old Church buddies.
good luck xx

[LetsSayWeLove<3]

Calm down. I never had a boyfriend until I was 17. Never kissed, held hands, had sex, or anything up until my relationship now. We&#x27;ve been together over a year, and the years of wait we&#x27;re well worth it. It&#x27;ll be okay, don&#x27;t feel bad. A lot of people don&#x27;t get their first bf&#x2F;gf until later in life

[Gene Luc]

Well go back to church and catch up with old friends. (Some older women are in church praying that some guy will come back into their lives!)

Join clubs, volunteer for to help the needy or other cause you believe in, get a job! Part time jobs sometimes lead to friendship. Maybe where other kids work. (Lots of kids working at McDonalds where you meet many people.)

Stop feeling sorry for yourself! Also if you are out of shape, maybe sit in front of computers or TV sets too much, become active!

I am not even going to ask if you are a girl looking for another girl.

[jandira]

I&#x27;m turning 16 on the 10th and I&#x27;m a girl I really don&#x27;t know how u feel cause I have alot of friends everyone knows me but if they stoped talking to u out of know where then they were never your friends in the first place and trust me if I was u I would want to wait to have sex with a girl I ruined my life not waiting I wish I would of waited and done it with the right person to don&#x27;t be sad that u haunt done anything yet and holding a girls hand doesn&#x27;t mean anything you&#x27;ll find someone someday that really likes to be honest I rather go out with a guy who&#x27;s a virgin and hasn&#x27;t done anything then go out with someone who&#x27;s done it with everyone I hope I helped u but if u want to make friends go on twitter go on facebook and talk to the people at your school get to know new people dot be shy if u need any more advice don&#x27;t be shy to ask my Facebook is jandira deburgo don&#x27;t be afraid to inbox me and ask for advice

[Ankan]

i am 20 single now.b4 i was in relationship for 1 yr..if i want to compare my single lyf wid comitted ones thn i would say single lyf is way ahead.
advantage
-money saving mode
-long lasting battery
-u can take care of ur health by sleeping atleast 8 hrs at n8(i am vry concerned abt health and fitness)
disadvantage
-sometimes u may feel lonely and thn u wii ask the question on yahoo or facebook that y i don't have a girlfrnd?
listen bro don't waste ur tym by chasing or impressing other ppl.the r8 ppl will definately come to u at r8 tym.do all those stuff that makes u happy like gossing,games,music,sleeping whatever.don't just sit idle thn u will think all this shit

[GoldPenny]

Wow, I never had a boyfriend until I was 22 (6 years older than you are now), and I did not lose my virginity until I was 21 to the guy who became my boyfriend but we were just FWBs up until that point. Believe it or not, I have gotten even good-looking guys that tell me that I'm very attractive since I was about 12, so it wasn't my looks that were the issue, it was that it wasn't a focus for me and I let my parents hold me back. Even when I was 21 through 22, they still were trying to keep me from socializing, let alone have a boyfriend. Ridiculous, right?

[Sheep]

You don't really want a GF, you just don't want to carry virginity label because someone in your class go rid of it before you, I am 23 and never had anyone, I feel sad about too sometimes, but I actually made myself really confident and self sufficient, being able to survive alone in the world is very good skill to have. Love and relationships are important, but they are overrated, so is sex, sex is utterly overrated and I can tell you the more you have sex with people you don't like and don't want, because you rushed to the things, the less interesting and emotional it becomes. And sex without love and emotions is something like watching a mediocre porn movie.