Should I Just Stop Talking To Her?

[tyber]

This girl that goes to my school randomly added me on Facebook in December and has been talking to me pretty much non-stop. She always mentions how she doesn't have a boyfriend and hates how people go for looks over personality. However, with that said she told me that I'm not attractive enough to/for her so she wont date me but she also said she likes talking to me/hanging out and thinks I have an great personality. Now, I'm not like super crazy about this girl but I do kind of like her a little bit and I'm afraid that if I keep talking to her and hanging around her I'm going to really start to like her and just end up hurting myself in the end. She seems to think that wont happen because it hasn't with her other guy friends.

She has also mentioned that in the past she's had no attraction to friends but over time from really getting to know them and hanging out, she has very rarely developed feelings for them so I shouldnt count on it but it's possible. The thing is though, do I keep talking to her and risk me just liking her more while she still views me as undatable or is it worth the "risk" to hope things change? On the off chance she ends up with someone else (She's never had a boyfriend before and doubts herself), I'd probably get hurt/jealous too. She's always said it's her dream to have her boyfriend be a friend first. Any advice?

I cant really just cut her off. I don't really want to either. And no, she doesn't secretly like me or anything.
I have. She just seems to think that I wont end up really liking her.

[Mike]

Bro,

Explain everything to her.

I know exactly how this will go, like you said, it ends with you being hurt by some immature girl.

Talk to her about it, please

[Tooth4075]

No one else cares so why should you? If anything you should just enjoy the moment talking to her, and just not care if she doesn't want you at that exact moment. Anyone can be convinced of anything, and you just have to get to know her better. Also girls are all liers. Now I'm sure they're not all liers, but it's good to assume this, and here's why. It's safe to assume that. However it's also the best idea to assume that your best bet is to stay neutral with a girl, and try to build your relationship with her alil at a time.

However let me tell you this if a girl says she doesn't like you you should just let her go, and give up on her. You don't have to forget her, or ignore her, but just don't be trying to get in her pants all the time lol. Just enjoy her company while she's around.