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My parents think i watch porn and do bad things and i really want to cry because i dont?
04-08-2014, 04:12 AM
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My parents think i watch porn and do bad things and i really want to cry because i dont?
Okay sorry if this is long, I can't really tell because I'm on my phone
Anyway, I'm 14 and I am a muslim girl from a religious muslim family. My dad recently caught me using facebook (which ill admit, I wasn't supposed to but I used it anyway) and my dad literally went through ALL of my chats and looked at my timeline and my photos, and I feel absolutely angry.....can parents actually go through their child's private properties?
On my timeline, he saw photos of my classmates out on a party (I wasn't in it by the way) and they were wearing slutty clothes....and ever since then, he thinks I'm one of them... He told me that I was a horney teenager and that god is going to send me to hell...he said it in such an awful and disrespectful way that I started to cry, but he couldn't give two donkeys about it.
Then my mum started crying hysterically and now she hates me
Now i feel ashamed to face my family and I feel embarrassed too... Please help me, what should I do? I feel like I want to die! I hate being in a religious family they're so over the top! Just because I had Facebook they are all hating me and its really awkward when im around them. And my dad thinks I watch porn too, and whenever I tell him 'no I don't' he doesn't believe me and he calls me a liar...please help

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04-08-2014, 04:19 AM
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Hey hey, I'm from a religious family, you just need to talk to him and don't make a scene. Tell him I don't care if you believed me or not, but don't ever tell me that I'm going to hell just because you saw that I have a facebook profile. What ever your religion and culture there are people like you that have a facebook account and it's not always bad.
Say something about having tv or a laptop, it could be used in a bad way but it also could be used for knowledge and in a healthy way.
Maybe show them muslim or arabic pages in facebook.

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04-08-2014, 04:28 AM
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Hey beautiful Smile
I think you should have a serious and mature talk with your parents. Tell them you are definitly not like that, that they raised you better than that, and they dont have tp worry. Dont use facebook if they dont want you too, because it can be a very harmful website! Talking is always the best thing Smile have a great day! Xo
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04-08-2014, 04:33 AM
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you are going to muslim hell
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04-08-2014, 04:40 AM
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Hmmm...

Well, I relate to you in many ways:
I am Muslim, and my parents/siblings did not allow me to have a Facebook account, and I have a phone too. However, I have not created a Facebook page (although at first I wanted to in order to "fit in" with all of my "friends"). In response to your dilemma, and assuming that you still fear God and know that deep down you should have heeded your parents (even if they are annoying), I truly suggest you to one: calm down, two: pray to Allah SWT( to help you in this situation), three: DELETE your Facebook account and realize that true friends do not care or label you if you don't have an account. To be honest with you, my life has been PROTECTED on many levels by not having a Facebook account. For example, since I am a man, if I were to have my female classmates join my page or even male classmates who were acquaintances to me that were perverted (And treated women as derogatory pieces of meat), how would I look like??? Well, if you really are Muslim, I mean not those fake muslims who are used to create fear in the Sheeple's eyes and who are actually pawns of Shaitan and the Media...then you have to realize sister that indeed Facebook does this to you. It creates in you this fake ideology of fitting in and sharing soooo much personal information in order to make you just like those godless celebrities we see today. I do not know you and even if I did I cannot judge you as that power lies with God. However, I will pray for you InshaAllah, and hope everything works out.

And two more things:

YES, your parents have EVERY right to look into your things (if they didn't "bother" you they would not be very good parents, let alone intelligent ones).
"I feel like I want to die! I hate being in a religious family they're so over the top! Just because I had Facebook they are all hating me and its really awkward when im around them"....I can understand your frustration BUT know that this statement you said about hating your religion just shows how much you actually had this coming to you: Learn about Islam, the real Islam that Prophet Muhammad PBUH lived and taught by Allah's will, and you will swallow these immature words back down your throat, I promise.

This is a very long answer I know but at 19 years of age I have SOME wisdom, for real, on this topic due to similar circumstances and thoughts when I was immature lol.

Good luck!!!
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