Why is my boyfriend's cousin trying to break us up?

[Koizora~]

My boyfriend has a cousin and she dislikes me for no reason at all. I never met her and she doesn't know much about me. At first she'd tell my boyfriend that I was pretty or what not. Then later on she would tell my boyfriend to find another girlfriend and that she will help him hook up. (Me and my boyfriend are actually happy together and have no issues). She has been trying to set him up with a coworker of hers even though my bf refuses she is still stubborn. She even told my boyfriend how her and her sister went through my FB profile. She made comments about my looks, saying I have a big nose. (I don't think I have a big nose). This woman is married with a child so I don't know what's the use of looking through my facebook and talking about me. She sometimes also acts strangely around my boyfriend saying things like how she wishes they weren't related and how she wishes she was single. My boyfriend also says how she gets jealous when he hangs out with me and doesn't hang out with her. (I guess she sort of looks to him as support since she has marriage problems). So why does she dislike me and is trying to break us up when I never met her

[AL]

You're answer is clean she is a very insecurity individual who is jealous of you and because of her failed marriage situation and you and your boyfriend are very happy and she want what you have.

[ms_s]

Your boyfriends cousin isn't happy with her life, so she's making herself feel better by getting too involved into your boyfriends life. If she tells you you're pretty one time and then changes her mind by saying mean things about you on Facebook, that only means she's hiding behind her problems and taking it out on you. She needs to work on her marriage, or get a divorce if its that bad instead of making you feel belittled around her, especially when she's family. She should be trying to make friends with you.

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