HOW TO GET MY EX BACK?

[Maiy]

I put my ex out three months ago because he was flirting with girls on FB. I believe he wasn't haven't sex with no one. I been ignoring his calls and texts. Finally yesterday morning I asked him for lunch and we spend 5hrs together lunch and walk by the beach. He wanted to come over and bring bday present to my son (not his) I allowed him and stay over for few hours again. My son was the happiest to see him and begs him not ever leave for so long which saddened me. I miss him so much and wanted to kiss him but I didn't.
What do I do now?

[.]

when my ex left me, i emailed her the song "baby come back."

she came back.

[Happy-2]

Why do you want to get back with a bf who flirts with other girls? If his flirting was not OK with you before, why are you willing to overlook it now?

Sorry, it makes no sense to me. The only way this makes sense is if you believe now that it was a mistake what you did, that you were wrong for breaking up with him for flirting. If that's the case, then the way you get him back is by apologizing. As part of the apology, assure him that when he comes back to you, he'll be allowed to flirt with all the girls he wants to flirt with, because it was wrong of you to get upset by that. I think this is a terrible idea, but it's the only thing that makes sense to me if you really want the flirter back.

[Matthew]

Most of the breakups are reversible and if you do the right things at the right time, then you will have your ex back in your arms without Begging, Pleading, Being Too Needy;I love you” and “I really really care for you” isn’t what your ex needs to hear right now. Smothering them with affection may even push them further away.Be the person he fell in love with. He was attracted to you because he felt good with you, and you were fulfilling his emotional needs. How have you changed? Correct bad habits and mistakes, if any. Be positive around him. Laugh and smile. Always stay positive to feel good about yourself and make friends around you feel good because of you. Use the past to your advantage. If he complimented a particular outfit, wear it again. Or, share a lighthearted memory with him. If you have a chance to meet him, do it in a familiar place you used to enjoy good times together.email or give him a letter; Dear ___________,

I miss you so much that my heart is _________ _________. Every day I think of your _______ __________ and all the __________ _____ you give me. When you're near, I feel __________, but when you're away, I feel as if a part of my ___________ is missing.

Remembering all the ______ we had and all the _________ nights spent in the __________ of each other's ______, the _______ returns to leave me feeling _________.

I'm simply unable to ______ this feeling of ______________. Please __________ me at once, and tell me that you _________ me too. There's not a shred of doubt inside me, I know I want to______ _________ with you.

I can't wait until we can make the _________of passionate __________ like we did ________ ________ you_________.

Love,
___________





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[LEYKIS 101]

GEEZZ most of you women just aren't that bright!!! I guess you would think I was being mean if I said your stupid for wanting to go back to a guy who was trying to cheat on you!!!

When you do go back to him and he cheats on you, DO NOT BLAME HIM!! blame yourself for making the stupid decision to go back to him!!

[Y]

If you want him back, all you need to do is kiss him. The better questions are, has he changed, does he want you to be back with you also, do you really want him back?

[pictureshygirl]

Well, you said you kicked him out because of his flirting with girls on facebook. That must have really bothered you enough to kick him out. I think you are now allowing your missing him to forget what he did. You are making a huge mistake by listening to your heart and avoiding the real issues that made you kick him out. This is a crucial time and test of your strenght in this relationship, if you do not pass the tes of time t, you will lose his respect. Trust me, men do not admire weakness, they admire strength. By that I do not mean being a monster, I mean standing up for what you believe was a betrayal of the boundaries set in a committed relatonship. Without him even knowing, he is paying attention to how you reacte to his behaviour. If you are too forgiving you are sending a silent message that you are a pushover. And do not put the excuse of your son missing him as a reason to get back. That is even more reason you should be upset with him because he is the one who caused this predictament that is hurting your son, not you. Don't make the mistakes most girls do and take him back. Make him earn your trust first and he has to be convinced through the test of time that you demand to be respected and treated with value and trust, and not to be lied to. If not, don't complain later. Sorry, only trying really hard to help you here. Don't lose this opportunity to set him straight..