do you think its right for your boyfriend/girlfriend is on myspace or facebook?

[Nicole]

now i know some people are on there for business and marketing purposes but do you think its right to be on there. I had an argument with my boyfriend because he was on myspace. now i can't make him get off of there as much as i want him too. i just don't see the point in him being on there. am i wrong for feeling this way. and his page is set on private so i found his page but couldn't get on there. he says that he just talks to people on there but never met them in person
i am his girlfriend and my friend said that her friend had talk and met up with him on his old myspace page. She was rigth because my picture was on the page. now i find out he had another page and i don't want him on it from what happen last time with me catching him talking to some chick that i know. i think its cheating to allow yourself to have friends on the side. i don't like the fact that its private either. i don't like the fact that he didn't tell me he had a page. people go on their to hookup on the low point break period....90 percent of the time. Lets be real! people that are in relationships shouldn't be on there

[hotdog luva]

let him do what ever he wants
what right do you have to tell him he cant have a myspace?

[I Bleed Sarcasm]

you are overreacting.

[Lily♥]

OF COURSE ITS RIGHT.................MAYBE YOU WANT TO HIDE SOMETHING!

[Tay <3]

How old are you? If you're over 30, I think it's about time he steps into reality.

I wouldn't hassle him too much about myspace, but I would let him know that he should let you see his profile since you're an "item."

If he isn't hiding anything, he won't care. Also, if you don't trust him, then you should just walk away from the relationship NOW. There are guys out there who would love to be seen with you, and personally - he seems kind of immature. I thought myspace was for high school and MAYBE college.

[Cristina]

Are you his gf or his warden?

So he has online networking sites? So what? He's allowed friends right?

The fact it's private doesn't mean anything bad is going on - infact it means random people cannot see his details (it's safer).

being needy and controlling will push him away - try to relax and figure out why you don't have 100% trust in him (because you clearly don't if you're worried about this so much).

Good luck x

ADDITIONAL

Thanks for adding more information - it changes my opinion on the matter 100%.

If he's met other women online (and definately, not just hear say stuff) then I agree this isn't good. You need to talk to him and ask him what he is doing.

Having friends is one thing - both myself and my fella have FB accounts and I don't think it's weird to have trust enough to have these...BUT if it's been a tool to cheat for him before, then I agree you're right to worry.

Good luck x

[Rebecca]

It's perfectly fine. However, I would recommend you putting together a MySpace page, so you can be friends with him on there and view his page. Some people use it to just keep in touch. If you don't want to create a page, then ask to just see his profile sometime when he's logged in.

Best of luck

[mishel_layman]

i think its fine because anyone can lie on the internet and u never know what shes telling him and it shouldn't matter