How can I wait for ex that I love, but he doesn't want to be with me now, only after a couple of months? In february i s

[Iulia]

..after a break up that we both decided to do. I have tried to do everything to get together again, i said him how i feel and what i want.. and i'm sure that he understands me but he said he isn't going to be with me again because i have changed and i'm not the girl i was before. Before i was pretty quite, now i am and was rebelious, a bitch. Well, i did everything possible to show him that i can be the girl i was before and our relation this time will be totally different, in a good-best way. I really want to be with him, i love and miss him and i suffer every single day, we were very close together, i am attached over him, and he was, but now he forgot me or he just wants me to think he is careless about me. He told me that he isn't missing me and doesn't love me and does not want to see or hear me. We study in the same highschool, and he is senior year.In summer he is moving in another place to study, and it's really far. He said that if he will see that i am trying to change myself in a good way, he will think about getting together, and the whole spring i am not allowed to text, call, talk to him, because all this time i annoyed him with a lot of calls. He said he wants to see if i can do this. I try hard to wait for him, and to change myself. But one thing bothers me:he has a new recent girlfriend. He said he does not want anything serious with her. He can't be with me now, and i accepted to wait. But now i see photos of them, comments and seems that is serious.
I don't know what to do, is he playing me? I'd do everything to be his.. and the fact that i wait and change in my opinion is a big step..

[Mr.Mitchell]

Build up your core values and standards. Meant to be. Meant to be. Otherwise as you mature you would understand more.

[Lauren]

I am in a pretty similar situation right now so I guess I can relate a little bit. Despite me and my ex still talking even though we try our hardest not to, it just happens. It's hard to accept losing a big part of you and if he says he has moved on this fast and doesn't care/love you anymore then he's either lying to convinse himself and you that he's ok or he didn't love you in the first place. You shouldn't wait for something that may never happen, it'll only hurt more each day when you still wake up in the same place. No girl/boy should wait for something that might not happen, it's like he's playing with your feelings by leading you on to hope there will be. You *changed* because you came out of your shell and were confortable with him, and if he didn't like the real you then he isn't worth changing for. If you love someone then you learn to accept who they are and little bits you don't like about them and eventually they don't even matter. This boy is a fool because you clearly care about him, probably a lot more than this other girl. Get rid of him on social media sites so you can't see the pictures - they're probably purposely put in front of you to make you feel like poo!!! Don't let him win. Go out and do something with yourself, find a hobby and spend time with close friends/family doing fun things. You don't need a boy! Especially one that doesn't treat you right. Be confident and you'll get there one day Never settle for less!!!! good luck X