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jamie · 04-08-2014, 04:44 AM

Hey thanks for reading,

So I'm 18, male from the UK and last night i was working (behind a bar) and there was this guy who seemed like a bit of a cheeky chappy lol,So I told him to go away cause he was being a little cheeky/ annoying although I was in a bad mood anyway.

He came back to the bar later and I smirked and went over and he was a lot nicer and we both just couldn't stop smiling and making long eye contact before I looked away... He was pretty drunk so his inhibitions would have been pretty gone whereas I was sober and working so I was still pretty aware of everything. We spoke for about and hour in total as he kept leaving and coming back to the bar and I feel as though he was flirting. I've recently come out as bisexual, its not public knowledge like my family and a few people from work know, it's not a secret but im pretty straight acting so I think people may be shocked.

Anyway, this guy offered to buy me a drink and asked me if I 'liked it straight' and this is not a very common phrase to say where I'm from so I think he may have been asking If I was gay/ straight in a subtle way? lol I kind of avoided the question but flirted in other ways. I was going to ask for his number but he got kicked out of the bar I work in for arguing with someone so I didn't get a chance.

I also found out his sister (who I don't know really well, but can have a conversation with) works at the bar I do so I could ask her about her brother and try and talk through her but they're half/step siblings so I'm not sure if they're very close. I looked him up on FB and it kind of hints he's gay but I don't have FB to add him Sad

What should I do? Wait for him to come back? Ask his sister?

thankfulmonth331 · 04-08-2014, 04:54 AM

U just wait .. hide yur feelings .. it may seems that guy is a flirt . Have cheesy conversation. ... Try to read mind when he is talking. ..and dont ask her sister...coz. she wud have conv with his bro... I hope this is helpful

Benjamin Chong · 04-08-2014, 05:00 AM

Miss, since you got time to write this question on yahoo answer. I believe that you probably have time to open a facebook account now (when you are reading this), send a message to your lover with introduction to yourself like 'we met at the bar, remember?'. After he adds you, you can start sending him message or chat with him online, you know keep close... And Welcome to Facebook!