How to I get him to see me as more than just a friend? **10 pts for best answer**?

[Renee Rose]

So I've known my crush for almost 2 months and he definitely was interested in me during the last few weeks of school. We don't see each other anymore since school is over & he is going to a different school this fall. I saw him yesterday at a night market and we talked for a bit, then we had another online conversation via Facebook chat.

He convinced me to play a few online games such as League of Legends & MapleStory but now that's all we seem to IM about. We're slowly becoming more comfortable with talking to each other each other since we conversed for a couple of hours & teamed up on LoL, but I'm worried that he'll just see me as "one of the boys" if I play too much. I'm his only friend that's a girl who plays these games with him, and I'm not too sure if that's a good or bad thing.

How do I turn our convos from online games to other things that will make him see me as girlfriend material? What can I say to make him more interested in me & possibly ask me out without making it seem awkward?
Should I still game with him or should I make myself more "unavailable"?

Any advice is greatly appreciated! (:

[bluebear]

u cnt force him to like u ?

[rhi]

find him.
take all your clothes off, then he'll not only like you, he'll freaking love you.

[madison]

Get him drunk.
Have sex.
The end.

[SuperNova]

When he goes to a different school are you still going to be in the same area? Is it worth it to date him if he is going to be far enough away that it is hard to see him?

Things you could do:
- Ask him to do something with you in person: Frisbee, go to a movie that he would enjoy (although you can't really get to know one another while watching a movie) even just go for a walk! a bike ride.
-Psychologically, if you experience something dangerous and thrilling with someone it creates a feeling of excitement associated with that person, there was a study discussed in my textbook and classes regarding this. Is there an amusement park near?
- Tell him that you love playing games with him online and say that you would love to hang out with him in person, is there anything he would like to do?
-If he is like all sorts of foods, it is always fun to go for Sushi or Vietnamese dinner and do an activity.
-Laser tag and Mini Golf are lots of fun. If he likes games so much, is there an arcade you guys could go to?

Once you have gotten him to hang out with you, it is all up to you. Just be yourself, laugh a lot, just be genuine, don't ever tell a lie, be your own beautiful self! if you have the time and the $$ go for a "spa" day with your girls! get your hair styled at a salon and buy a new top or pair of jeans! go for a cute style, don't dress like a skank or he will think you are too easy.

In all honesty, I think you do know what to do but you are just to scared to do it.

Ask him to hang out, look your best and be genuine. Smiles and laughter are one of the things that ooze femininity and that is what men are drawn to. don't act like one of the guys, don't bring up gaming other than mentioning you enjoy playing with him, try and talk about other things, your hobbies and interests. When you reveal something to a male, he feels inclined to share something back, that creates bonding. Bonding face to face is a lot more meaningful and exciting than bonding over a computer.

Also, touch his shoulder a few times when you laugh together over a joke, face your body towards him and pay attention to what he says, repeating it naturally sometimes too, like "Oh I really enjoy ________ as well!" (Only if you do!!) watch for his eye contact, which direction his toes are pointing and his chest, if all is pointing and focused on you, he is very likely interested.

Hope this helps a bit! Best of luck, but remember, you can't MAKE him like you, all you can do is be yourself and see what happens. If you fake from the beginning, it isn't meant to be.