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What should i do!?
04-08-2014, 06:17 PM
Post: #1
What should i do!?
My boyfriend (25) and i (22) have been together for 6 months now, and im having an issues with the amount he is on his phone doing various things, when we were first together he would spend time, talk with me and we would do stuff together and after he would get on his phone and i was just fine with that cause we don't need to be together 24/7, but anyway now days he wakes up gives me a very brief good morning and little peck and then straight to facebook or reddit so on.. and its like that for the better part of the day, and sometimes i dont even get that much. its not a cheating issue i know hes not like that, he get defensive every time i bring it up ive tried every strategy to approach the problem that i can think of and we have actually got into a few fights about it, and those were pointless cause nothing changes no matter how many times i explain it to him he fails to see any problem with what hes doing im at a loss on what to do, i feel like im boring and uninteresting to him ive said this and he denys it but it doesn't feel any different, one time he promised me he was going to cut down alot and for almost two weeks he kinda did, but he says there is nothing better to do so whats the problem, his phone is his GO TO for entertainment and whatever instead of me. its to the point where i feel more like an annoyance or an interruption to him instead of a girlfriend, i know jealous of a phone never thought i would encounter this its ridiculous but true... ive tried very hard to overlook this issue trying to think if im being dumb or if its actually a problem.. ive asked my friends and they say "oh just talk to him" . mo mother even started to dislike him because when ever she came around he was on his phone even when we went to her house for dinner and i would say very nicely "hey can you put your phone down and join us?" and hed answer with annoyance saying "why there's nothing to talk about?" hes stopped that when shes around but other than that thats how it is, am i making a fuss out of nothing? or is this justified ? and what should i do?? i need help with this i see a bad pattern developing and i really don't want this to become normal or ruin our relationship please help me.

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04-08-2014, 06:22 PM
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You in person are secondary to whoever or whatever is on his computer or phone, right?

The thing is, it may not bet any better. He seems addicted to social media. At that age in the morning he should be throwing a leg over and giving it a go, no racing to FB.

there are a lot of guys out there who would find you a lot more interesting than social media. Go find one or more of them and have some fun.

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