Should I give my boyfriend another chance?

[Audrianna]

I'm 23 years old and me and my boyfriend have been through a lot of ups and downs. We have almost broken up about 4 times now. Each time it was my boyfriend that caused the almost break up. He has serious trust issues. He has looked at my Facebook messages and at my text messages. Each time when we almost broke up he always gave me a speech as to why to give him another chance and he always cries and normally say ok and we try again.

For the past 2 months he has hardly given me any attention(hardly no texts or calls) & actually for the past two weeks he didn't talk to me at all. He claims he always too busy with school and work, but I even told him that if he at least texts me everyday, I'm good and I won't complain.
The first time he communicated with me in forever was yesterday morning. Normally I would be glad, but the message showed me that once again he invaded my privacy. Yesterday I know for a fact he was on my Facebook again and I do b/c of the text message that he sent me that morning. He was basically giving him self away, but when I asked him about it, he said he had no idea what I was talking about. I don't think its a coincidence that my email and my Facebook password gets changed about 20 mins right before he texts me. All this changing of passwords & the text he sent me happened at like 4am.

I feel like he doesn't have time for a gf & he needs to focus on himself & I believe his trust issues will never change. He wants another chance, but Idk.

[blahblah]

no, no more chances.... 4 chances in too many as it is. if he hadnt gotten the idea by now hes not going to.

[Franchezka Galura]

Girl, you need to let him go. It'll be the hardest thing to do, but you need to let him go and move on. If he has serious trust issues, what more? He'll eventually become more and more attached and it'll be harder and harder for you to let him go. Just breathe, and tell him it's over. You deserve privacy. If your boyfriend can't give you that privacy, he isn't worth keeping. A relationship must be built on trust, or it'll just fall apart.

Please, please! Don't give him another chance. If you've almost broken up 4 times and he has trust issues (while going on your FB and changing your password..!) is a HUGE red flag.

Good luck! (:

[lowborder195]

If he's a hypocritical, inconsiderate, condescending, stuck-up bad boy, dump him or reject him and tell other girls to avoid him!