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My boyfriend (soon to be fiance) comments on half-naked pics of women on facebook, am i wrong to be mad?
10-15-2012, 08:34 PM
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My boyfriend (soon to be fiance) comments on half-naked pics of women on facebook, am i wrong to be mad?
Ok so my boyfriend and I have been together for a year and two months in a long distance relationship. We only see eachother once a month. He does thoughtful things for me like save change for my laundry, get me a phone, and tells me i'm beautiful. He and his family have hinted he's going to propose soon.
But there are some BIG issues. He took a year to tell me he had a 8 year old son with a girl who said she was "infertile" (the child lives in a different country but he pays child support.)
For the past few months, he's been commenting on pics of other women on facebook. Like "big booty" pages and calling them mamacita. Today was the last straw, he commented on a pic of a married "friend" who is a model and was wearing a bra top and small shorts and said "No offense to you or your husband, but you are a knock-out, totally worth stealing. You are very beautiful."

I basically told him how disrespectful it was and then he started turning things on me telling me i'm wrong and that i'm making him feel "stupid" just for telling girls they are beautiful because he wants to make them "feel good about themselves." Thats fine if the girl is dressed, but I think it's completely disgusting to comment on a half-naked married girl when you are about to move in with/propose to your girlfriend. Am I wrong, or no?
Yeah, I asked him how he would feel if I wrote on shirtless pics of my male friends that they were "hot," he kinda avoided answering that one. He is foreign, from Mexico, but he's been here 7 years. If he's so head over heels for me, like his friends and family say, then why is he telling naked women they are beautiful? Doesn't make sense to me

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10-15-2012, 08:43 PM
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You are right, but in a sense do you want him to comment on half naked guys? Haha jokes, but yea have a serious talk with him, he should be mature enough to understand your point of view as you both are getting married soon. Sit down and have a serious talk with him.

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10-15-2012, 08:43 PM
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you're totally right. in all honestly, i would have ran away from that man long ago! he's immature, he's lying (he doesnt compliment ANY girl to 'make them feel better' T.T its cuz hes a horny dude) and all that he's doing is inappropriate.

he calls girls mamacita?? well would you feel comfortable walking up to a man, winking and saying 'whats up hottie?'' ? of course not, because its wrong! and hes doing the internet version of that.
i strongly suggest you leave him. he cant even understand where youre coming from..
hes very difficult to deal with isnt he?
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10-15-2012, 08:43 PM
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You aren't wrong, but it is natural for everyone to be attracted to other people. It is better for him to comment on pictures than to go out and have an affair. But he could have turned it around and said that you shouldn't be stalking his facebook, because that isn't cool either.
But it is no problem to be upset with him about it. I doubt he is doing it to make the girls feel better about themselves, he is just attracted to them, which is perfectly normal. But you cant really stop him from doing it.
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10-15-2012, 08:43 PM
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Is he foreign? Men from other countries do think that way you know. You only have to go to Spain and Greece to see that!! It doesn't sound like you should both be getting married. A whole year to tell you he has a child is really deceitful. I don't think he's nature or a real man. Sorry but you can buy your own phone, you know you're beautiful and you can do your own laundry. What he needs to do is stop being a creep. Babe seriously find someone else x
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10-15-2012, 08:43 PM
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don't yell at him for it, tell him it makes you uncomfortable when he makes those comments just like how he would be uncomfortable if YOU were going around facebook and commenting on pictures of sexy guys. if he doesn't respect that then you have a huge issue already in the relationship and you're not even married yet.
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